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Yes, it’s all about you alone. Why did you passionately want him yesterday, and today he finds you in the corner of the sofa with a blanket and a book? Help a man understand that your sexuality has not disappeared, help him give you what the soul is asking for now.
Of course, a man sees changes in your mood. And he, too, worries in his own way and wants to console you. And he sincerely considers sex to be the best way of all possible. Because sex is the highest manifestation of love, would he engage in it with someone who is indifferent to him?
This is the male view of things, and we do not always know about it. A man does not stick, does not jump, he just wants to give us what he has.
But there are days when he will not find reciprocity with us. How to understand each other?
You both need to understand that sometimes our emotions are very much determined by our physiology. Then both he and you will know what to expect from a woman on certain days of the month, and that it is useless to even start.
And if we imagine for a moment that we live in an ideal world, then knowing these four emotional periods that a woman goes through every month also gives a man the opportunity to show his love and care for her in different ways, to give her what she asks for. soul right now.
After all, every month we are so different with him that a partner can rightfully say: «Me and my four women.» So what happens to a woman from the first day of the cycle: the onset of menstruation?
Day 1-7
A woman at this time is weak and very vulnerable, she wants attention, care, friendly — even paternal — care. She may ignore sex, but she really wants something tasty. And she, carried away, is able to eat in the house «everything that is not nailed down.»
What is happening to her?
The first or second day she is irritable, feels aching pains in the lower abdomen, as well as headaches. Only on the 4-6th day does her mood stabilize. At this time, she needs less stress, physical and emotional. She is very sensitive to pain — so you can not do painful procedures, it is better not to go to the dentist.
Why?
For the past two weeks, her body has been preparing for a possible pregnancy, progesterone has been produced, but conception has not occurred, and the level of this hormone drops sharply. The production of prostaglandins begins, causing vasospasm and the necessary uterine contractions. But all the vessels of the body also narrow, and if a girl has low blood pressure, she will have severe headaches.
Your love during this period will be best expressed in … the absence of sexual contact for the first two days
It is better not to offer her coffee, chocolate, which enhance the action of prostaglandins, and therefore muscle spasm. Go for a walk together to relieve spasm — it works more effectively, even if she wants to lie on the couch all day. Say nice words to her, lie down embracing. Everything will be fine soon.
Day 7-11
Men, pray for these days! At this time, she perceives the world as it is, does not react super-emotionally.
What is happening to her?
She is full of energy, capable of adventures. This is the best time to discuss family matters, approve the color of the wallpaper and agree on a vacation trip.
She is in a good mood, shirt-guy, makes plans for the future with ease. These days your girlfriend likes herself in the mirror. No skin problems! Eyes sparkle, skin glows. Even the voice becomes velvety.
Why?
The level of estrogen rises. This is the safest time to have sex if you are not yet planning a child. Both of you will feel light and free.
It will be great if during these days you take the initiative and bring foods rich in iron — apples, pomegranates, liver, to help her recover faster from blood loss. You can think of it as a prelude to sex, and in general, for a woman, it is.
Day 11-17
What is happening to her?
Her whole body is set to sex, she flirts with everyone around, her charm is irresistible. She wants sex and she will get it. Follows the appearance, feminine. During this period, increased stress resistance, memory. Increases libido. On the same days, according to statistics, betrayals most often occur.
Why?
The level of estrogen reaches a maximum, the body is ready for ovulation. This is the best time to fulfill sexual fantasies. The woman herself takes the initiative, is not inclined to long foreplay. If her sexuality has not yet fully awakened, it is on these days that her body responds best to touch.
Starting from the 18th day
For a man, the name of this period is “The main thing is to survive.”
What is happening to her?
Your girlfriend gets upset over little things, makes decisions under the influence of emotions, sleeps poorly, feels tired and irritated. She is absent-minded: according to statistics, most often women get into traffic accidents, and female students get bad grades on these days. She wants to sit in silence, stay at home, it is important to see that her partner is her protector and support.
Why?
After ovulation, which occurs on the 12-14th day of the cycle, the female body waits for about 14 days to see if pregnancy occurs. At this time, the level of progesterone rises. The reflection in the mirror ceases to please. The skin becomes more oily, inflammation appears. The metabolism slows down.
Positive emotions will help both of you reduce emotional stress — this is the time for joint trips to the cinema, to a concert, to the pool
Caresses of the breast are not welcome — it swells and is painful. It is during this period that it is most difficult for her to get up in the morning, so coffee in bed at this time will be more than appropriate.
Try not to be offended by whims and mood swings. Know that, as in a fairy tale, it remains to wait just a little: the day will change, another — and the spell will dissipate.