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🙂 Greetings to regular and new readers! Dear ladies, in this article you will find answers to the questions: is it worth marrying a Chinese man? What are the pros and cons of such a marriage? At the end of the article there is a video on the topic.
Chinese men
Due to the increasing influence of the Celestial Empire on the world economy, interest in its culture is also growing rapidly. Recently, more and more Russian girls are considering Chinese as potential spouses.
What kind of girls do Chinese men like?
There is a stereotype that the Chinese only marry Chinese women. But in fact, they treat girls of European appearance with special sympathy. In our country, there are many students from the Middle Kingdom, in extreme cases, you can get acquainted with a Chinese on the Internet.
These guys are tough nuts, they will not be frank on the first day of correspondence. If you meet a Chinese person in real life, you will be faced with a certain stiffness and caution. He may look cheerful, but he is in no hurry to show his true feelings.
They are a wise and calm people. To please a Chinese man, you need to shine with harmony and femininity, behave decently and restrained. If you cannot live without Latin American passions, then you should not marry a Chinese.
You may have a Slavic appearance and a pronounced accent, but you should be like Chinese women in image and behavior. They are capricious and even hysterical, but they rarely try to dominate the relationship. In China, as in all of Asia, it is too early to talk about equality between men and women.
The Chinese are very cunning, although there are many straightforward people among them. Also, like our men, they can “split” friends for sex on the very first date. Well! – you will think, – they are the same as everyone else: frivolous and walking!
But hurry to conclusions. Thus, the Chinese man simply checks the girl. If you don’t pass the test, then your date will most likely be your first and last. At best, you can count on the role of a mistress.
Relationships in Chinese are the path to marriage. The inhabitants of the Celestial Empire do not meet just like that. They subconsciously evaluate the girl as a future wife and mother. The Chinese adhere to family traditions and are not afraid to create their own families.
As soon as a guy finds a normal job and gets on his feet, he will be ready to get married and have children.
Chinese men in relationships
Men of the Celestial Empire do not spare money for girls. For a Chinese woman, it’s normal for a guy to take her shopping every day and treat her to dinner. For a Chinese, a girl is, to some extent, a child who needs to be nursed and pampered.
If a young lady comes on a date, then the first thing she hears from her boyfriend will not be a sugary compliment, but a question if she is hungry. A distinctive feature of the mentality of a Chinese man is sincere concern for his woman and joint offspring.
It is difficult for a Chinese to open up their feelings and experiences. Most men in the Middle Kingdom seem cold and even cynical in appearance. In fact, they are used to keeping everything to themselves. He will not pour out his soul to the first comer, his trust must be earned.
All Chinese guys are somewhat shy. It can be difficult for them to ask a girl out on a date or just walk up and get to know each other. But if he decided to part with you, he will say so directly.
The guys of the Celestial Empire do not like to build castles in the air and beckon girls with them. They are characterized by realism and pragmatism. The Chinese man is not devoid of romance, but first of all he is concerned about the question of whether a girl is suitable for him for the role of his wife.
An independent European “fifa” will scare him away. At worst, he can just have fun with her. It is not typical for the Chinese to chase disembodied muses; his beloved must be real, albeit imperfect.
When dating a Chinese man, you will feel protected. However, if you decide to move to China, you must love its culture with all your heart. Otherwise, an alien and incomprehensible civilization will cause you melancholy and annoyance.
The inhabitants of the Celestial Empire are tolerant of other cultures and religions. Your boyfriend will not mind you visiting Orthodox churches and remembering your native customs. But you should not persuade him to your faith. The Chinese idolize their culture and do not succumb to the influence of other peoples.
Chinese family
In traditional Chinese families, tyranny and physical abuse are rare. Although the patriarchal system is felt both in everyday life and in relationships in general.
The overwhelming majority of newlyweds prefer to live with their parents, so that they help them in every possible way with the housework and with the upbringing of the child. They usually buy large apartments to live together.
Of course, a daughter-in-law must respect and love her husband’s parents. But their influence on the family life of children is not as great as, for example, in Muslim countries. If you want to live separately, the spouse’s parents will not be offended, but will be happy to come to visit to nurse their grandchildren.
In general, the Chinese are a non-conflict people. If you show wisdom and patience, your relationship with the relatives of your Chinese husband will work out in the best possible way.
Until recently, only two children were allowed in China, but this rule of law did not apply to interracial marriage. Now a woman of a different nationality can also give birth to as many children as she wants.
It should be emphasized that children are the main wealth for the Chinese. All the best is put into them. The Chinese father will take an active part in the upbringing of the child, teach him everything he knows himself.
A typical Chinese man is a caring husband and a decent family man. He even manages to play novels on the side without prejudice to the family. Mistresses in China get only a fraction of a man’s attention and money, because the main thing for him is his wife and children.
The Chinese don’t like to get divorced. If there is a choice between forbidden love and a lawful spouse, then in most cases they choose the latter.
Video
Here is more information on “Marrying a Chinese”
Friends, leave your advice from personal experience, whether it is worth marrying a Chinese man. 🙂 Until next time on this site!