A real man knows his manly duties. Man’s honor: to honor the law, to protect relatives and homeland. The man is a protector. A man protects loved ones and what is dear to him. In any case, he lives not only for himself. A man should have a profession and earn money. A man must build a house, plant a tree and raise a son.
Over the past few decades, men have been corrupted, at least there are fewer men in European culture. For the last century, and especially for the last forty years, boys have been brought up in a more female culture. And the fact that a man is obliged to do something, he has a duty, faded into the background, because the boys were brought up like girls, became process workers, lived for pleasure, looked for true desires in themselves and forgot about men’s duties to people and business. Discipline is not much in honor, the word “duty”, “should” have become abusive words for many, and more people now like to feel and look for something in themselves that will lift them — instead of doing something. Men are allowed to cry, men are allowed to feel sorry for themselves, men are allowed to be afraid. Of course, every man has feelings, every man has fears, every man wants something, but before there were priorities — first you do what you have to, and then have fun: business is time, and fun is an hour. Today it is disappearing. Men have become feminine, and this is called more simply — they have become rags, they cannot make a decision, they cannot lift themselves from the couch, they cannot earn money and they are not able to become the head of the family.
Men began to disappear — but men’s duties did not disappear. All the same, someone needs to be earners, all the same, someone needs to take on the burden of responsibility and be courageous, no matter how difficult it is … And if it has become impossible to rely on men, women have to be courageous. And now women are becoming earners, they rely only on themselves in everything and choose a career, with a sigh giving up the dream of a family and children. Why would she keep this rag and endure his whining when she already earns more than him?
What follows from this? Should live…
Yes, now men are disappearing and families are breaking up, but — but this does not mean that worthy people and strong, good families have disappeared today. They are! In good families, everyone is cheerful, healthy, they have wonderful children who have a future. And since it is, since it is possible, then I suggest you (and especially men) stop complaining about the wrong life and start taking care of yourself. Men can and should remain men: at work to be leaders and respected professionals, at home to be husband and father. Planting a tree, building a house, raising a son — this has not disappeared anywhere and remains a part of men’s work.
However, there is another side here: a real man respects himself, he chooses for himself whom to love, where he will build his house and how his children will be brought up. The values of a real man are to demand respect for themselves, and here a real man is demanding. He will do everything for a woman — but only when a woman follows him to the ends of the earth, as the wives of the Decembrists followed their husbands. He will give his children everything, but only if the children follow his values. No matter how harsh it sounds, a real man chooses both his woman and his children. For Taras Bulba, his son Andriy ceased to be his son when he chose a different homeland and other values. A real man knows how to subordinate himself and knows how to subordinate others, and these are not just skills, but his values and his duties: to be a leader always and everywhere. Become the leader of yourself, become the head of the family, become the head of the company.
This is a great and worthy work!