There are many ways for a man to achieve orgasm, whether through penetration, masturbation or fellatio. How does male orgasm manifest itself and what are the means to make a man come?

Orgasm, whether female or male, is a physiological response of the body that takes place at the peak of the sexual arousal phase. In men, it takes place after stimulation of the erogenous zones and / or the sexual organs (penis, testicles, anus, etc.). Physically, male orgasm usually results in ejaculation (but not always), as well as strong muscle contractions. Finally, it lasts an average of 6 seconds.

As in women, the male orgasm causes an acceleration of breathing and heart rate. At the psychic and neurological level, jouissance is synonymous with well-being: it causes the release of several hormones and molecules linked to the sensation of pleasure, in particular oxytocin. Finally, orgasm is linked to strong enjoyment and intense pleasure, which can lead to a state of deep relaxation or even falling asleep.

Ejaculation is often considered the high point of male enjoyment and orgasm. Yet ejaculation is actually a mechanical response of the body, a physiological reflex. In fact, it is not necessarily linked to orgasm, which is both a physical and psychological sensation.

Although this is rare, know that it is possible to have an orgasm without ejaculating, even in men. We then speak of ejaculation: this consists of strongly contracting the pubococcygeal muscle when we feel that ejaculation is imminent, in order to retain it. This technique allows you to chain several orgasms without losing your erection. 

There is no miracle recipe for achieving male orgasm. The important thing is to listen to the desires of your partner and to his pleasure. However, during sexual intercourse, the arousal is generally stronger than during masturbation. Penetration can then be one of the effective ways to make a man come.

During intercourse, it is possible to increase your pleasure by practicing the “stop and go” technique. The latter consists in stopping the movements when reaching a strong arousal, just before ejaculation. Thus, when we resume the comings and goings, the pleasure increases more and causes a more intense orgasm. 

The carnal contact between the partners, the looks and the kisses that they exchange increase the sexual tension and nourish the desire. The same goes for caresses, which stimulate the different erogenous zones. Indeed, the penis is not the only sensitive area: the testicles, buttocks or the anus are also parts of the body that provide pleasure when they are stroked. An erotic massage can, for example, allow you to caress the whole body and increase the excitement before sex.

Masturbation can also be a way to make a man cum without penetration. Manual caresses are also very erotic and can make it possible to modulate the intensity of the movements. As with penetration, it is important to have a penis sufficiently lubricated for masturbation to be smooth. During this, do not neglect certain areas such as the testicles, which are also a very sensitive part of the body, and which can increase the pleasure of masturbation. 

Blowjob is the male equivalent of cunnilingus. This practice of oral sex is one of the ways to achieve enjoyment in a man. It consists in stimulating the penis by the tongue and the mouth by performing back and forth movements. However, it is not limited to a regular pace, and speed variations are welcome.

Likewise, it is possible to alternate the forms of caresses between tickling on the glans, or kisses on the penis. Use your tongue to lick and tickle the different parts of the penis, keeping in mind that the tip is the most sensitive part. Finally, the ideal for oral sex is not to focus only on the penis. Using your hands, you can stroke the testicles or the top of the penis while you stimulate the glans with your tongue.