The free upbringing of the male type is different from the free upbringing of the female type. This is natural, since the female approach to education is initially different from the male approach.
A woman in a child loves a little one, a man loves an adult. A man in education, as well as in his life as a whole, lives with the mind, is methodical and demanding, certainty and the final result are important to him, he demands respect for himself, and from the child — deeds and the necessary behavior, and for this he is ready to use hard power. A woman, both in life and in upbringing, lives with a feeling and a fluid mood, she cares about the well-being and safety of the child, her ideal is warmth, mutual understanding, harmony and unconditional love between everyone. See →
Free upbringing according to the female type seeks, first of all, to protect the child from the rigidity of the external and cruelty of the adult world, and acting from within, playing on the feelings and turning to the feelings, seeks to keep the child as safe as possible.
We will not force the child to do homework, we will sit with him and make homework easy and fun. We will not scold the child, even when he has caused significant damage to loved ones or others, we will try to appeal to his feelings so that he feels the grief of others as his own.
Free education according to the male type primarily respects the freedom of the child to make independent decisions and pay for his own choice, and the main task is only to acquaint the child in a timely manner with the consequences of his actions, so that the child has enough data for sufficiently considered actions.
The child does not want to study normally — it is his right, but his duty to settle relations with teachers so that his parents do not have to answer for his problems. The child does not want to study at all — in principle, it is also his right, but only on condition. that he is ready to support himself now in order to be ready to support himself in life further.
Video from Yana Shchastya: interview with professor of psychology N.I. Kozlov
Topics of conversation: What kind of woman do you need to be in order to successfully marry? How many times do men get married? Why are there so few normal men? Childfree. Parenting. What is love? A story that couldn’t be better. Paying for the opportunity to be close to a beautiful woman.