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Everything happens in life. In life, there are situations when love needs a completely separate time, and a lot of separate time. For example, if a loved one lives in another city, then meetings will always take you a lot of time. Or give you a time of joy? Whether you make time for love or not is up to you. If your loved one is dear to you, you will be.
However, more often it happens differently, and loving and happy people do not waste time on love. Why? Because love can be made the background of your life — almost always.
For example: you are having breakfast or are going to have breakfast, but your beloved woman is next to you, and you can give her a special intonation of voice, a special look. Because you can admire your loved one, even if you are talking about food. The topic of food — but there are your views, intonations, jokes, the content of which will be: «I love you!»
In this case, love will not be a separate activity, it will be just a coloring of the background. And then it doesn’t need special time, it can happen all the time when you somehow intersect, are together, contact … You can always come up, touch with your hand, hug, kiss, look … and continue to do business.
How long does it take? How long does it take to listen to music if you turn it on and do something yourself? What are you doing? Affairs. And do you listen to music? I’m listening…
Sometimes a man can and should be reminded that there are relatives and loved ones next to him.
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So you are doing business, and love will be — included. Then this is all the time during which there is also love …
Here love is, first of all, attention to the beloved, it is one of the main languages of love. And attention to a loved one is, first of all, signs of attention.
Tokens are inexpensive things or simple actions that are done (gifted) because you remember someone and want to please him.
Together at home — once again come up, touch, say a casual compliment, share your thoughts and feelings (good feelings), listen and agree with something, look into your eyes more often and smile.
When at work or away — call, send SMS, upon return bring and give a flower or a cute trinket.
In a company — to be more often next to a loved one than with others, more often ask his (her) opinion, and not the opinion of others, mention and refer.
Together on the road — give a hand (male sign of attention), offer something to eat (female sign of attention).
Where are the reasonable limits?
One girl at the consultation was crying about the fact that she had little attention from her boyfriend. When asked what she lacks, she explained: “I need him to be with me all the time!” “What time is it?” — «Well, twelve hours a day!»
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The most beloved person in the world is not alone. In addition to our loved one, we naturally must and pay attention to something else — for example, parents, a child, work, our hobbies, household chores. In everything, including love, there should be reasonable boundaries.
It can be useful for women to compare how much attention she pays to a child, and how much to a loved one. Often the comparison is not in favor of a loved one, and this is a danger to subsequent relationships with him. See Preservation and Development of Love
On the other hand, sometimes men seem to forget about their relatives and loved ones, completely immersed in work. It is not right. How to talk to a man so that he remembers his beloved wife and children?
Video from Yana Shchastya: interview with professor of psychology N.I. Kozlov
Topics of conversation: What kind of woman do you need to be in order to successfully marry? How many times do men get married? Why are there so few normal men? Childfree. Parenting. What is love? A story that couldn’t be better. Paying for the opportunity to be close to a beautiful woman.
