Not only external behavior, but also internal behavior can become automatic: someone is used to automatically flaring up with indignation, for someone over the years of life, admiration and care have become natural. Love as a joyful care can become automatic, like any other inner behavior, for this it is enough to take caring actions in relation to someone who is dear to us for many days and years, not forgetting to remind ourselves what happiness it is to love! Warm intonations, soft hands, the habit of thinking about something else become automatic…
This is wonderful, but on one condition: wise, attentive, and not blind and obsessive love enters the automatism mode.
Mom: “Oh, you are my snotty little pussy! My hands, sit down at the table, now we will eat porridge! Son: «Mom! I am twenty years old! I do not want to eat! I don’t want!» Mom’s love is “set on the machine” …
Moral: given that the objects of love, the goals of creativity and the direction of development sometimes change, it is recommended to include awareness and rethinking of the situation at least once every ….. years.