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Miranda doesn’t know what love is. She understands only mutually beneficial relationships, where she gets what she counts on.
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Love-I want — a demanding attitude towards a partner, a desire to be given, loved, taken care of.
I give love — a shift in the focus of attention to a partner: I want to love and care, give and please, so that it is warm and comfortable next to me.
Combination Love-I give and Love-I want
Both Loves are good when one is balanced by the other.
Love-I want without Love I give is exactingness, self-centeredness, with a bias towards negativity (and here they didn’t give me!), whims (and I want!), unacceptable demands (you should always be with me when I ask), attachments (I I can not without you).
Love-I give without Love-I want is a complete lack of personal desires (as you say …), accustoming to whims (Here’s candy for you, just don’t cry!), Lack of authority and status in the eyes of a partner. See Parental Authority and Irresponsible Help Illustrations)
How to develop love?
Develop Love-I want: “What do I need? What I want? What makes me happy? «Want! I need! I will achieve! I have a right! This will be mine! and the joy of possession.
How I Buy My Love: Dog and Cat Model. Dog model: open devotion and gifts. Cat Model — Independence, Formation of Attachment: Promises and Runaways, Gift Training, Hooks…
Develop Love-Give: “What do you need?” “I want to be interesting for you! I want to learn to be your joy! Care, attentiveness ”and Joy from the joy of another (with a flash we support the joy of another).
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Video from Yana Shchastya: interview with professor of psychology N.I. Kozlov
Topics of conversation: What kind of woman do you need to be in order to successfully marry? How many times do men get married? Why are there so few normal men? Childfree. Parenting. What is love? A story that couldn’t be better. Paying for the opportunity to be close to a beautiful woman.