PSYchology
Downton Abbey movie

You fell in love with me a year after we got married?

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Movie «Sex and the City»

Miranda doesn’t know what love is. She understands only mutually beneficial relationships, where she gets what she counts on.

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«Which marriage is better — for love or for convenience?» The best marriage is a marriage with a head, that is, a union of love and calculation. And in order to answer even more precisely and about what interests you, you need to understand: what kind of love are you asking about? And what calculations were you thinking about?

The calculations are different. The calculation to find a person close in spirit to oneself is also a calculation, and the calculation is quite far-sighted. True, most often by calculation they mean something else, namely, the opportunity to receive certain material and worldly benefits with the help of another.

For those who value living space and earnings more than anything else: it is true that marriages of convenience, according to statistics, are more durable than love marriages. However, among them, numerous durable ones, there are practically no happy ones …

If you made calculations, but miscalculated, most likely, it is not the calculation that is to blame, but the calculation is erroneous, the calculation is not for that. How to calculate correctly? See →

Similarly, about love: you first need to understand what kind of love between you and in general — is it love?

Conditions of life of love

Love between a man and a woman, love as a living warm feeling and caring behavior, has a simple foundation: established relationships and choosing the right person. See →


Video from Yana Shchastya: interview with professor of psychology N.I. Kozlov

Topics of conversation: What kind of woman do you need to be in order to successfully marry? How many times do men get married? Why are there so few normal men? Childfree. Parenting. What is love? A story that couldn’t be better. Paying for the opportunity to be close to a beautiful woman.

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