Routine, decreased libido, boredom: living together, after the first ecstatic times, is not always exciting. For a smooth and pleasant daily life, read our advice and learn how to live well as a couple: it’s an everyday challenge.

Languorous kisses, hot embraces and constant contact: these elements very often characterize the beginning of a love affair. Over time, the erotic and amorous flow tends to dry up a bit… But is this really inevitable? Certainly, the other has become familiar to you, but that does not mean that he or she does not stir you up anymore. Providing your partner with small daily gestures helps keep your relationship alive.

Compliments, declarations of love, little surprises, sweet words, expressions of desire, all these attentions help to maintain theeroticism and tenderness at the heart of your relationship. If it’s a habit you’ve broken, force yourself to do a couple of things every day at first. You will see, sometimes it only takes a few things to rekindle the flame and find complicity. You and your partner will easily find this romantic dialogue as it is pleasant.

There is a good balance between the comfort of privacy and individual neglect. It is normal, over time, not to put on your lingerie every day, or to brush your teeth next to each other. Each couple defines their own rules regarding thresholds not to be exceeded: keeping the bathroom door closed, not telling each other everything, reserving discussions or activities for their friends are all examples that can save your relationship.

The daily life spent together implies all the more to set some limits, so that neither you nor your partner becomes a roommate. Continue to take care of yourself for your partner’s attention; this can translate into shaved legs, a bit of perfume, a dress he likes, etc. for ladies. Men can also put effort on their dress, little attentions, shaving, etc. In turn, it’s a safe bet that your partner will raise his own standards: the circle is necessarily virtuous.

The key to loving balance is respect for others and this is all the more valid when you share your daily life. The peculiarities of each of the partners must not be changed at all costs. The main thing is to maintain good communication so that these differences do not become a source of conflict. Do you find that your partner is not very generous financially? He has a completely different point of view, and to discuss it is already to evacuate potential reproaches.

The better you get to know each other, the easier and more appreciable it will be to cultivate your differences. Thus, your partner knows your impatience and will therefore be able to anticipate it in such or such situation. Not to mention that his calm will undoubtedly teach you, over time, to control your stress.

Projects are a couple’s best glue, whether it’s having kids, buying a house, going on vacation, moving abroad, or trying rock climbing. The projection together acts at several levels of understanding: it affirms the couple as a perennial entity, since the future is not in danger; you make sometimes risky bets together on the future and you therefore trust both. Together, you share a universe of dreams and fantasies that maintains an essential cohesion, whether the project is realized or not.

Contrary to popular belief, when it comes to sexuality, there are always areas and pleasures to discover, even after many, many years together. As soon as you start to know which caresses your partner likes the most, it’s time, not to always provide them for safety, but to explore new avenues of pleasure! It is essential to communicate frequently around sexuality. It is not a question of giving you feedback at each intimate moment, but of taking stock from time to time. How could your partner know what you want if you don’t tell him?

Life together is a daily challenge, but above all a great happiness. Each couple experiences more or less positive phases, they are all natural breaths in a romantic relationship. With a strong cement in projects, sensuality, dreams and attentions, your couple will cross the years!