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The course of the relationship between a Cancer woman and a Libra man is always difficult to predict 100%. The representative of the element of air and the one who is patronized by the sign of water are always unpredictable, because the mood changes quite often, and the partners often do not match in emotions. Nevertheless, there are recipes for a long and happy life for this union. The Libra man is a very gallant gentleman, his element is communication, in which his intellectual potential and the ability to talk about everything in the world are manifested. His only drawback is indecision. The Cancer woman, in turn, is a very sensual, but touchy nature. Without a doubt, she is set for a serious relationship, but even the closest people are not always ready to trust her experiences, the reason is her unwillingness to disturb other people.
The representative of the sign has a very high level of intelligence and is well-educated, but she does not demonstrate this to everyone, because she is sure that only the best are worthy of trust. And that person can definitely be a Libra man. Their couple will not converge immediately, because one has been looking for “the one” for a long time, and the second is not decisive enough to approach her.
But, if the meeting took place, then these two will definitely interest each other. Both are aimed at finding not just a soul mate, but someone with whom they will spend their whole lives. However, this does not mean that they do not understand anything about romance. Quite the opposite: the Libra man is ready to give his beloved a lot of gentle touches and sweet memories. If the relationship goes beyond the candy-bouquet period, then shortcomings emerge that both did not notice all this time. Perceiving the world around is very easy and simple, the Libra man sometimes does not think about how much the Cancer woman suffers, at the moment when she takes offense at the “lack of attention”. But do not forget that in this union both highly value love relationships and, if they are really in love and do not doubt the partner’s fidelity, even to the detriment of their interests, they will do everything to make their partner happy. So even if the couple seems to be on the verge of breaking up, this union definitely needs to be given a chance.
Love compatibility
Such couples rarely converge, because the Cancer woman is an adherent of “traditional” views, which means that the gentleman should take the first step. You should not expect this from a Libra man in the short term, because he can communicate with several women at the same time for a very long time – until he is 100% sure that their relationship with one of them will surely be successful.
Nevertheless, if the union did take place, then only long-term relationships should be expected here, because both are set to find a partner for life. But before embarking on married life, an incredible romantic period awaits the partners. They are both willing to tenderness, lightness and all sorts of things that are typical for the first year of a relationship.
At this stage, only very small problems in the characters that do not suit both are noticeable. The Cancer woman is not used to fussing, her stronghold is a house, a cozy family circle and gatherings in the living room with her closest ones. And, as a representative of traditional values, she would like to see a more confident, stable and determined partner. The Libra man, although he is determined to find his “happily ever after”, as well as a girlfriend, stability and confidence are definitely not in his character. He doubts for a long time, he cannot choose. The only thing in which he is stable is in emotions. It is them, unlike his partner, that he skillfully controls. The Cancer woman is certainly not one of those people who are popularly called “hysterics”, but there is a certain uncontrollable variability. Support is especially important for the representative of this watermark. If a man does not become a strong shoulder for her and does not express the proper level of support, she will be offended, and such episodes of Cancer are remembered for a long time and rarely forgive.
However, all this at first, and even after several years of relationship, is successfully ignored. Both signs are confident that they have found the one with whom they will spend the rest of their lives, therefore they immediately forgive the partner for the manifestation of not very pleasant character traits, and negative emotions are quickly compensated by the positive that the Libra man is ready to provide in abundance. Especially if the missus shows her best “traditional” qualities, for example, the ability to cook delicious meals or rationality in choosing a place where they will go in the evening. However, the rationality of Cancer will be exactly what Libra can learn in friendships. The representative of the element of air will become for the Cancer woman a real mentor in controlling emotions. Their friendship is full of joyful moments, and conversations between them can last for hours, if not days. They just find a common language. In addition, next to Cancer, he will feel at home, in a confidential environment. A friend of Cancer will find solace in him.
Marriage compatibility
It is in a joint life that all the problems that they had either not noticed or ignored before are revealed. Of course, both have a common vector – the desire to start a family and be, if not the best in the whole world, then at least good, understanding parents. However, this goal is achieved in very different ways. So, a Cancer woman is characterized by a love for home events, a desire for comfort and typical activities for a woman. The Libra man is not at all accustomed to the role of the head of the family and is not going to get used to it. He believes that strong bonds can be built without always being at home. In addition, even in the union that has already taken place, he hopes for a certain freedom. Communication for him is one of the key factors of existence, without which he withers like a flower. The wife of Cancer is unlikely to allow him this, because the family is now at the center of the whole world, and if she decided so, then it should be so.
Stubbornness is one of the character traits of a woman, thanks to which the union can break up. She is used to listening to herself in everything, sometimes ignoring the opinions of others, and if the spouse went beyond what is permitted, then a scandal cannot be avoided. The Libra man does not strive for quarrels, and it is easier for him to wait out the “dangerous periods” somewhere where positive emotions will await him. Of course, sometimes he admits his guilt and, apologizing to the Cancer woman, buys expensive things. However, this is exactly the mistake that the representative of the sign rarely forgives. She was not used to pampering herself or those around her. When family life begins, the desire to save on absolutely everything catches the eye more and more. Of course, if the family is experiencing financial problems, there is nothing wrong with this trait. But if the house is a full bowl and the funds are spent irrationally, then the donor will still be criticized.
In this union, the main thing is the search for a compromise. After all, if a Cancer woman learns to forgive a man for his lightness, he will definitely think the next time he just wants to buy a golden ring for his beloved.
But in intimate relationships, the couple has no compromises. At first, they don’t even think about sex, because both are delighted with romantic moments and everything that the first months of a relationship give. When it comes to intimacy, they are both ready to enter the game. It’s called a game for a reason, because both of them crave light, adventurous experiments in bed. True, first of all, for both, intimacy is an act of trust. But that the Cancer woman, that the Libra man are sure: a little peppercorn can be added to this act of trust.
The pros and cons of the union Libra man – Gemini woman
This alliance is not easy. Partners are slowly moving towards rapprochement and there are many things that they are unlikely to be able to quickly forgive each other. However, it is worth concentrating on the virtues that will help the couple to strengthen:
- General plans for the future. Both signs, even in the candy-bouquet period, evaluate each other from the point of view of the prospect of starting a family, therefore they try to prove themselves equally well from this side: the woman demonstrates classic female skills, and the man tries to show who is in charge here;
- Tenderness and romance in this couple are two whales on which they build relationships. The Libra man endlessly indulges his girlfriend with surprises, and the Cancer woman gladly gives sweet moments;
- From the point of view of intimate relationships, the union is close to ideal – they are both ready to receive emotional charging from each other.
When forming relationships in this pair, it is important to pay attention to the shortcomings – these qualities lie on the surface and often become a stumbling block:
- Different views on the family. A man in this union is accustomed to freedom (for example, to calmly go to a party with friends), while a woman locks herself in her “female” duties and forces her husband to adhere to classical views on marriage;
- Financial question. Spouse Cancer is accustomed to saving on everything that is possible, while a man easily parted with money, even if they are earned, as they say, with sweat and blood. Often this becomes the cause of disputes initiated directly by the girl;
- Positive and negative thinking. Libra men do not like to dwell on the bad, trying to remember the good moments for the most part. The Cancer woman is very touchy and inclines her partner to quarrels, after which he cannot stand it and goes to rest on business trips and, possibly, embraces another;
- different ideals. Of course, they can get carried away with each other, but the man in this case is looking for a more easy-going young lady, and the young lady herself is looking for a more reliable partner. However, the friendship between them is almost perfect.
Despite the fact that there are more negative qualities, the couple has every chance to overcome the growing tension by finding an important and necessary compromise for both of them. Libra man and Cancer woman are ready to overcome any obstacles in order to save love. The main condition is that this love be strong enough to fight for it.