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The 1 situation
Five-year-old Vitalik, appearing in the kindergarten in the morning, immediately starts running around. It is difficult to switch him to calm activities. And if, obeying the demand of the educator, he begins to play with the children, then a quarrel breaks out, which often ends in tears. So he began to behave recently. See →
The 2 situation
Serezha’s father and mother work and at the same time study at the evening department of the institute; The boy is in the care of his grandmother. She tries so that her grandson does not get bored, and allows him to watch all television programs. (“Let the child have fun!”). See →
The 3 situation
… The three-year-old peanut, having taken away the toy, rejoices that he has taken possession of it and does not pay attention at all to the tears of the offended; brings the trophy to mom, says with satisfaction: “This is mine!” See →
The 4 situation
The teacher noticed that today Grisha (he is 4 years old) came to kindergarten in an excited state: he talks loudly, argues, starts quarrels with his playmates, takes away toys and even obeys her instructions with difficulty. What is the reason? See →
The 5 situation
Gena really does not want to go to bed before everyone else. It is useless to talk about this with mom and grandmother: they are on guard of the regime.
Dad is also for order, but in some cases he allows deviations: especially on those days when football is shown on TV. Dad is a passionate fan, and the son knows that he will sympathize with anyone who wants to share the company with him. And the sly one takes advantage of it. See →
The 6 situation
Three-year-old Natasha announces the apartment with loud cries:
— I want to go outside! Walk more! I want to jump rope!
She clings to her coat, trying to keep it from taking off. She “does not hear” her mother’s persuasion that it is already time to have dinner and sleep, that all the children have also gone home. The girl throws herself on the floor with a squeal, knocking her feet. See →
The 7 situation
Kostya whines, begging for permission to stay “one more minute” at the TV … Mom persuades him:
— Do not Cry. Tomorrow, before the weekend, look longer. Now don’t cry… Well, calm down, don’t be nervous, it’s bad before going to bed… See →
The 8 situation
Valina’s mother asks Marina’s mother:
— How does it happen that your daughter obeys from the first word and you do not raise your voice? And here I am screaming, screaming, sometimes I’ll slap, but it’s a little useless! See →
The 9 situation
Svetlana (6 years old) divided her holiday gift into four equal parts: for her older sister — a schoolgirl, mom, dad and herself. Everyone got very little. And now the girl already seems to regret her act. On the face of confusion. She is already ready to put all the parts together in order to take possession again of what she has just shared so generously among her loved ones. See →
The 10 situation
In a conversation with the teacher, Misha’s mother shared her thoughts on how she achieves her son’s obedience.
— Misha is seven years old, he will soon go to school, and he will have to do and decide a lot on his own. We always had this in mind, and therefore, from early childhood, we tried to instill in him the ability to manage his desires, to refuse what does not coincide with the capabilities of the family, to understand what is possible and what is not. See →
The 11 situation
The mother reprimands her five-year-old daughter for pushing her younger brother away from her desk:
— You’re behaving badly. After all, he is smaller than you, he must yield. See →
The 12 situation
The cubes of building material depict the ranks of lined up soldiers. They «rebuilt» and «marched», «stood at attention and at ease»: the soldiers «prepared» for the parade.
Sasha gave orders loudly for 5 years, as befits a real commander with the rank of captain.
“Sashenka, come on, put your cubes together and get ready for a walk,” the grandmother says to her grandson.
— Well, grandmother! .. What kind of cubes are these! These are soldiers, and I am their captain. See →
The 13 situation
The first frosts covered the stream with a crystal crust. Six-year-old Valerik and Zhenya decided to test the strength of the ice. The most common method: will the ice fail or not if you walk on it? Finding themselves knee-deep in icy water, they had to listen to the notation from their parents: you can’t do this, you can get sick. The warning, unfortunately, did not work: the «experiment» was repeated the next day. The parents of Valerik and Zhenya, each in their own way, began to instruct their sons. See →
The 14 situation
In the morning, four-year-old Marinka is going to kindergarten. And then the grandmother sees that she is putting on her mother’s hat.
— Beautiful? Does it suit me? she asks.
— No, it’s not pretty. These hats are worn only by adults, says Grandma.
And her girl:
— No, it’s beautiful! I like! I will go in it. She suits me. See →
The 15 situation
— Dad, Nina Petrovna praised me today: I memorized the poem faster than anyone! Do you want me to tell you?
“Better tell me about your behavior, what you did yesterday!” Father says sternly. See →
The 16 situation
In the presence of a five-year-old child, a mother tells about him, what is his appetite, what he eats with pleasure, whom he loves more — dad, mom or grandmother, than he had been ill since his birthday. Of course, he does not keep silent about toys — how many and what they are. And then about the main thing: what the son can do, what an “unusual child” he is, smart, quotes his statements and finally says: See →
The 17 situation
— Who do you love more — Baba Anya or Baba Vera? — jealously interrogate the four-year-old grandson, then one grandmother, then another. Everyone wants to be more desirable for their only one … One gives her grandson toys, the other — sweets.
The baby has already developed the habit of looking into the bag and asking the same question:
— What did you bring me? See →
The 18 situation
The mother asks the teacher:
— Why did the child become wayward, naughty? He was small — they did not know grief with him. And now (soon to school!) He has become different: he criticizes our orders. Gu.e.t, for all your opinion … See →
The 19 situation
Vadik after the holiday tells the teacher:
— Yesterday, my dad and mom went to visit, and in the evening we walked in the park: they treated me to ice cream.
Was your grandmother with you? the teacher asks the boy.
He waves his hand dismissively.
— She guards the house. Dad said: Grandma is a good watchman. See →