Sexual position, the 69 does not involve any penetration: the partners head to tail both indulge in oral sex. A form of preliminaries which have the interest of giving pleasure to each of the 2 lovers simultaneously, this position of the Kamasutra does not necessarily win all the votes.

The sex position of 69 has the merit of promising pleasure to each partner in the act, without implying any form of penetration. In doing so, 69 is one of the sexual practices experienced by lovers who have not yet taken the plunge into deflowering. This position for making love is also a useful way to achieve enjoyment without any risk of pregnancy: without vaginal penetration, a woman cannot get pregnant. Warning: if the risk of pregnancy is zero, transmission of STDs remains possible by the oral route. Be sure to use condoms for effective protection.

69, instructions for use:

Position to make love without penetrating each other, the 69 uses the oral routes to lead the couple to orgasm.

• The 2 lovers sit head to tail, lying down – the man over the woman or the woman over the man. Some practice this standing position: the man carries his partner so that the mouths of each are at the level of the sex of the other. It is in this case to be particularly muscular. Note: this sexual position is also practiced by homosexual couples, under the same conditions.
• In a heterosexual couple, the man cunnilingus to his partner, who gives him a blowjob in return. Oral sex acts are performed simultaneously. The partners may accompany the oral caresses with acts of mutual masturbation.
• 69 can be sex in its own right, in which case lovers practice oral sex until the man ejaculates and the woman climaxes. The couple in this hypothesis tries to achieve enjoyment at the same time. The sex position of 69 can also represent a single phase of foreplay.

Some people see 69 as a classic foreplay, while others see this sex position as particularly intimate and not necessarily pleasant.

The arguments for the 69 position:

• Some people fantasize about this position of the Kamasutra, whose very intimate character they appreciate. Men often like 69 all the more: men are more excited by the visuals than women. Head to tail with the partner, the lover has a vision that is as close as possible to the intimacy of the other.
• This position for making love involves sharing and sensuality, and banishes any form of embarrassment.

The arguments of the refractory to 69:

• In this position for making love, lovers cannot kiss. This lack of face-to-face contact cools the ardor of some, who blame 69 for a certain lack of romanticism.
• While performing oral sex, the partner cannot necessarily focus on her own pleasure from cunnilingus, and vice versa. This argument flies in the face of practice.
• Those resistant to oral sex, by extension, will refuse the sexual position which involves simultaneous oral sex and cunnilingus.

Certain conditions can favor these foreplay which is an integral part of Kamasutra.

1. Give confidence to the other. The close-to-intimacy visual aspect chills people who fear exposing hidden flaws. In this case, it is important to reassure the partner before getting into the 69 position: sweet words and caresses all over the body can help build confidence.
2. Pay attention to hygiene. Bad smells are the main obstacle to oral sex and cunnilingus. The sex position of 69 requires impeccable hygiene, to allow the 2 lovers to concentrate on their own pleasure and that of the other without being distracted by practical concerns.
3. Go to orgasm. By giving pleasure to the other in 69, the chilly lover will tend to appreciate this practice better.

Either way, the sexual position can only be practiced with the consent of the other.