Merlin was distracted, did not give the necessary orders in time, and now others are to blame for everything. This is irresponsibility.
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When it is not known who is responsible, it is not known to whom he is responsible, what and for what he is specifically responsible, they talk about irresponsibility as a feature of this situation, about the absence of a responsible approach. More often, however, they talk about irresponsibility as a personality trait, a characteristic of a particular person. Irresponsibility is the position of a person-child who lives in the world of the Kindergarten, without tasks and obligations. Who does not think that obligations must be fulfilled, and for non-fulfillment — to answer. To pay.
In solving issues and problems, irresponsibility is the presentation of excessive, unfulfillable demands on others, without fulfilling one’s obligations.
To hang signs: “Do not litter!”, But not to put up the ballot boxes — irresponsibility.
Irresponsibility is a person’s belief that in this situation decisions are not made by him, they do not depend on him, and in general all this does not concern him.
Typical options for irresponsibility are the habit of relying on Avos, postponing everything for later, not thinking about the future … Irresponsibility is internally comfortable, but for other people it is a source of trouble and problems. «Did you do it or not?» — A responsible person answers this question honestly and in the case of “did not do it”, he is ready to bear responsibility (punishments or payments). An irresponsible person eludes this question and runs away from responsibility.
Where does irresponsibility come from? By itself, responsibility does not appear in a person. If parents or other elders raised responsibility, there will be responsibility. Not brought up — there is nothing to swear. Cursing is also a manifestation of irresponsibility, shifting responsibility to someone bad, because of which all the troubles. As a rule, the irresponsibility of children is formed by their parents — either by their own example of irresponsibility, or by the lack of exactingness on this issue.
What is the responsibility if the father did not take care of the child at all, and the mother was only afraid for her child and protected from everything?
By itself, biological maturation does not add intelligence or responsibility. It is not uncommon to meet thirty and forty-year-old people who have never learned to be responsible either for business, or for people, or for their lives. Man child…