Julie allowed herself to freak out and get upset to the point of showing complete helplessness, but when the long-awaited call from the editorial office suddenly rang out, in a matter of moments she got up and put herself in order.
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Interpersonal games are not only bad, but also very warm and good.
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Interpersonal games are hidden or overt games that people play among themselves.
Interpersonal games are sometimes played not in pairs, but in pairs or even teams against one or more people. For example, Good Cop and Evil Cop is a game played by two against a third. “Against the third” does not mean that it is against his interests.
“I can’t do anything! I must be a fool!», as well as the game «I’m a bad mother!» is a common manipulative game of helplessness that only seems to be intrapersonal. Initially, it is always an interpersonal game, a game in front of the audience, with the goal of attracting attention to itself and abdicating responsibility. Sometimes — to hang responsibility on others.
The playful nature of such helplessness is especially clearly seen in situations where helplessness suddenly becomes clearly unprofitable. Then the “helpless person” suddenly changes dramatically, helplessness abruptly disappears, “subsides”, and the person instantly turns into a completely wealthy, reasonable and wealthy person. It became necessary — came to his senses.
Watch the video from the film «Julie and Julia»: Julie allowed herself to freak out and get upset to the point of showing complete helplessness, but when the long-awaited call from the editorial office suddenly rang out, in a matter of moments she got up and put herself in order. The hysteria passed instantly.
The game of fear has its own intrinsic benefits and is quite popular. “To be afraid”, the experience of “as if fear” allows you to successfully attract attention to yourself, takes time with exciting experiences and allows you, under a convenient pretext, not to do what you don’t want or it’s difficult.
Pay attention to their everyday fears and tend to experience them — mostly women.
When the game of fear is played with involvement, it turns out to be quite serious and causes the same consequences as fears that are not far-fetched, but initially real. What starts as a game gradually becomes life.