If you have decided that it is important for you not to suffer, but it is important to take care, to be attentive, and this is an indicator for you that you love a person, then you can educate yourself and teach yourself to remain bright and happy even if you are with your loved one. break up for any reason. The technique of mental insurance helps this.
The technique of mental insurance should be done even at the first meetings with a person dear to you, while he is still interesting to you, but you have not yet got stuck in affection. As soon as you miss the moment and start to get sick, it’s already a little late. We need to work ahead of time and ahead of time. How?
Here is a wonderful person, Sasha, sees a good girl. He likes her a lot, and he is interested in her. But he has not yet grown into her soul, and therefore he is now looking at her, admiring. I imagined her next to me — I liked it, it looks good. And it fits the size, and the eyes are pretty, and the smell is good, and the touch is pleasant. And then he closed his eyes and imagines: the girl leaves his picture. And you sit, chat with friends, talk, look at other girls. And ask yourself: are you okay? And while you have not grown to the girl yet — what do you see? Great friends, cool restaurant, delicious juice. Ask yourself: can you live without this girl? You know the answer: elementary, and three times. After that, your task is: whenever you meet this girl, if you don’t yet have the habit, on the one hand, admire her sincerely, and on the other hand, constantly erase her from your picture, and ask — how can I live without her? And every time this question is answered correctly. Therefore, your task is to learn to love this girl, take care of her always, and always know that if the girl leaves your life, your life will be wonderful. And this is your ability to love, the ability to care, and not suffer, because people need your care, not your suffering. Suffering is a way to demand from another person: you see how bad it is for me, so you, you bastard, are obliged … This is a way to tie and pull from another person.
True, much here depends on your concept of love. For you, love: is it giving or pulling?
How to suffer from unrequited love
However, if you decide to suffer — anything is possible! Start at 8pm Friday. Lie prone on the bed. Nichok should last 60 minutes. If one of the relatives is outside the door, in this case, support the door with something heavy and answer all the cries with a runny voice “Everything is fine, leave me alone” … Further, see →
