I want to find something for my soul

Choosing a vocation is always more than just choosing whether I want to do this or not.

Indeed, you can and should listen to your inner mood: mine is not mine. But to be limited to one of them is debatable. There are different types of people who, according to different schemes, are looking for their calling. Some have a weak side of the skill — and then they adjust their Calling to the existing skills. For others, and this is more common, the issue is with desires — and they do not lose hope of finding a calling in a narrow range of desires. In my opinion, both of them work crookedly.

Have you wondered if there are so few things in the world that you want to do, or are you just not able to want yet? Can you now, offhand, think of ten, fifteen, thirty things that you would like to do? Can you wish?

If a person has a rich desire, he does not focus on it, not because he wants it, he is not interested or does not need it. It’s just that the choice of these wants is too large to become a selection criterion. And then the question is different: how do I choose one of my want?! After all, I want a lot!

So there is no need to drive yourself into the framework of wanting or not wanting: what kind of freedom of choice can we talk about if there is nothing to choose from? May you have a rich choice, richer than just choosing from «I want it or I don’t want it.»

How do I want to develop?

It’s very simple — go to the mirror and look at your face: is it really the face of a person who is looking forward to tomorrow? Is it true that sparks live in the eyes of this person who looks at you, his gaze is cheerful, tenacious and attentive? Is this person’s body really toned and energetic, does he have enough resources to want something from the heart? Is this true about you? To want to do something, you need to have some start-up capital already. At least a supply of energy and good mood!

living face

To begin with, work with your face: the expression of universal sorrow, arrogance and whims should not get stuck on it. Relax your face in front of a mirror. Relax completely, so that tension is gone from the eyebrows, from the cheeks, let go of the smile. Imagine that you are breathing not only with your nose, but with your whole face, the air evenly enters through your face and exits through your face … Release all the muscles. Out?

Now rehearse. Imagine something that you really enjoy: food, a nice person, a pleasant event. See how the pattern of your face begins to change. As something warm begins to wake up in the eyes, as a smile is outlined in the corners of the lips. No need to strain your face — just watch how a relaxed face is illuminated by reflections of joy and anticipation of a miracle. Remember this state. It is with such a relaxed, contented face, expecting a miracle, that you can appear in life and meet new things. And then you will definitely want to do them! Don’t believe? Check it out!

If you are already used to a different face pattern — at first it may seem unusual — but then it will definitely become familiar. And there will be more things in the world that you want to do.

Text about myself

The second point of working with want: working with internal settings. Not a single thing — I emphasize, you will not want to do a single thing if you pronounce the following text to yourself: “This is hard and stupid. I’m tired. Well fuck? Lazy.» Do an experiment: try to do at least 5 squats with this text. If you reach the 3rd — you are a labor hero, normal people give up this occupation already on the first squat.

Now repeat the same thing, but saying to yourself: “Great! Yes! I can do it! I love life! I love the work I do! Forward!». The effect, I think, is noticeable.

So for the rest of your life, accustom yourself to be attentive to the text that you say to yourself. What is your first reaction — Super and YES! Or well… I guess…

And it doesn’t matter what decision you make later, let it be the most balanced and thoughtful, but the first reaction to a new business should be the setting: “Yes, it’s great that you came!”. Greet business with a smile! And then, after thinking, make a real decision — will you do it or not.

“Go my friend always go the way of good…”

This point is probably the deepest, and the most interesting. I’ll start with a simple question: Who do you care about every day?

It’s good if you take care of yourself. And it’s sad if, after taking care of yourself, you forget about the people around you, those close to you. The desire to do something triples appears where there is a benefit to many. You took care of yourself, quickly solved all your troubles, made yourself sensible and healthy — and now your task is to take care of people. Why is it important? Even a little experience in Sinton, and before that, observations in life show that when a person provides for himself, but no new business has appeared, he begins to degrade. For the sake of oneself, one gets tired of trying, desires and energy disappear. Someone begins to look for excuses in mental trauma, and then gives a lot of money to psychologists and psychiatrists to be cured. Some people prefer to lie in front of the TV. Who is weaker looking for satisfaction in cigarettes, in beer, in food in immeasurable quantities … What kind of desires can we talk about?

It happens that later, when health gave the first failures, a person with former fanaticism wants to return to life. A worthy impulse, but, alas, most often it turns out to be too late — neither energy, nor strength, nor any other resources are left. There are units that break out into life, but mostly they slide back into the gray life that has become familiar. The outlook is grim, no matter how you look at it.

But there is always another option: a person has adjusted everything for himself, there is enough energy and strength, and now he continues to invest this energy, in those around him, in life, in people. The first rule of effective use of money is that money should work and bring you new money. The same applies to internal resources. They invested their soul, money, time in the business that many people need — and they got resources a hundredfold, they got what to invest further. Resources can always flow and change, sparkle like a mountain stream. This is a guarantee not only of bright desires, but also of health, long years of a happy life.

Are you now living more in self-care? It is right! But if you already have enough care for yourself, then slowly start taking care of who is nearby. It’s very simple. And you can start now. Just call a dear person on the phone and say kind words to him. For example, wish you a good day.