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We women love to dream. Imagine a prince on a white horse, a house full of flowers, kisses and dressed up kids at a family dinner … Why, over and over again, our dreams are shattered by cruel reality? Because that’s what we want be loved and happy!
Unfortunately, we do not know how to transform these dreams into reality. In childhood, we were not taught this, so we live in illusions: I want one thing, but in fact in life it’s completely different. This discrepancy is our suffering, our pain.
So why stop dreaming? To give up girlish dreams once and for all, to accept the axiom «all men are goats», to reconcile with their fate? I’m sure you’ve met women who have chosen this path. It is sad to look at them — tired and shabby, living in eternal discontent, and, worse, in humiliation. They do not experience internal torment, they live as it turns out, and do not aim for more.
Is there another way? Is it possible to make real life look like a dream, is it possible to make yourself — beloved and happy? It turns out you can. Irina Miroshnichenko talks about this in detail.
Pictures of love and happiness
First, keep dreaming. Picture happy relationships in your mind: you and your loved one are walking in the park, cooking together, dancing on the beach, or riding the merry-go-round… buying a carpet, hanging curtains, swaddling your baby, or just waking up with a smile…
Add small details to your dreams, they will help you more fully immerse yourself in the picture of love and happiness. Do you imagine a loving man gives you flowers? Roses with gerberas or daisies with orchids? Cut or potted? Imagine with what smile you accept them, with what look you look at the man, what words do you say in response?
Collect yourself a piggy bank of such pictures from your favorite films and books, from the lives of friends or from your own imagination. And then — arrange a «view» of the collection, every day, for 15 minutes, in the morning, after waking up, or in the evening, before going to bed.
You can and should tell your pictures to others — preferably to those who will accept them favorably and give you a couple of ideas for the collection. By the way, at the training of Irina Miroshnichenko, a surprisingly pleasant female company is always selected, in which it is very effective to create your own pictures of happiness.
But that is not all. Secondly, and perhaps most importantly, every woman needs to treat her dreams as instructions.
Instructions for those who want to be loved and happy
If you want to be loved — behave like a beloved woman! Like this? We recall a piggy bank of pictures: to be in a good mood, to rejoice at the sight of a beloved man. He came up to you to ask something — you immediately got distracted from your affairs, looked at him tenderly, smiled and answered affectionately. “Wait, wait, don’t interfere, I can’t now, leave me alone …” — this is not how a beloved woman behaves.
If you want a warm atmosphere in the family — let you always have a topic for conversation ready, light and pleasant — for relaxing, serious and constructive — for working on relationships, interesting and exciting — for inspiration. “Why don’t you love me” or “How can I live with such a fool as you” — such topics definitely do not contribute to a warm atmosphere.
Why is it so hard to be happy?
It would seem that everything is simple: present beautiful pictures and behave the same way in life — you will be both loved and happy. Alas, sometimes it can be incredibly difficult for us to move away from the negative thoughts, emotions and feelings that overcome us. We continue to act according to a non-working, but such a familiar scenario, stepping on the same rake over and over again. You can deal with these obstacles and learn how to take simple and effective steps to happiness at the training of Irina Miroshnichenko. Come and become loved and happy!