The wife, hearing this, burst into tears. And I seemed to be petrified. I just didn’t know how to react. The doctor continued to explain, said that she would have to remove all reproductive organs: uterus, ovaries, fallopian tubes. Of course, she will never have children after that. And even a surrogate mother will not help, because there will be nowhere to take the egg.
When I realized this, I was simply thrown out of my chair with rage. For so many years I begged her to give birth, I dreamed of a family so much. But she refused, because she wanted to first take place as a professional. It seemed to me that everything is already possible: we have worked so hard for so long, our career can be considered successful. And then suddenly there was such news. I will never have children. There will never be a family. “
The man admitted that he could not control himself: he jumped up from the chair and ran out of the room. And he didn’t even go home after that, but rushed to the hotel to cope with his anger, anger and other emotions that overwhelmed him. His wife tried to stop him: she took his hand and said that they could always adopt the baby.
“It was unbearable for me to listen to this. I wanted my child, biological. Because of her, I lost this happiness, ”he continues.
However, now the marriage is on the verge of collapse: the woman is furious because her husband left her at such a moment, and he is devastated because of the collapse of all his hopes for a normal family.
Social network users unanimously condemned the man. After all, it’s not even a fact that his wife will survive, it seems that cancer was discovered quite late. And he not only did not support her: he saw in her only an incubator for carrying his children and is now furious that a fatal illness ruined his plans for the life of both of them.
“He just doesn’t care about her, about her feelings. He sees only himself, he is only worried about his own desires. ” Angry comments poured in one after another.
But there is another side to this situation. If a man refuses a woman’s children, he is condemned, and she is advised to leave him and find a “normal father for their future children”: the woman’s right to motherhood must not be taken away. But what about a man if he is deprived of the right to paternity? After all, if he leaves his wife because of his unwillingness to give birth, society will still unequivocally condemn him.