The best gratitude for me was when I answered my client’s question: “So why do you want to get married?”, I heard her wise answer, which came to her during our work and which plunged me into a little shock.
“Now I’m really happy, but I still want to get married! Tatyana laughed. — I continue to want to get married, but not the way I wanted before. Now this is a completely different desire, more conscious and filled with meaning.
Just yesterday, I wanted to get married rather because of longing and pain in my soul. I wanted someone to take pity, caress and just love me. Over time, I stopped feeling sorry for myself and realized that my life is my choice.
Perhaps for some, these words will seem empty and boring, but for me they are very important now.
When my friend, meeting me after a long separation, yelled: “Oh, Tanya, how you have changed! Fell in love, or what? ”, I realized that she was right. I really fell in love, but not with a man, but with myself, with the world, with life. She didn’t believe me. She was even offended, saying that I had become secretive, mysterious and did not tell her anything.
And I have nothing more to say. I really just became happy. I really became just more attentive to the little things and to the gifts of God. Now I enjoy walking alone with a smile on my face and bright thoughts.
I am glad when the bus arrives on time, and lately I rarely stand at the bus stop for a long time.
I glow like a summer sun when I see a green traffic light and I say to myself: “Thank you, Lord. I’m always lucky. There is always a green light on my way.”
I love to set the table for my beloved and have breakfast with a full table setting, albeit alone for now.
I thank God for my mother who bought the wrong apples that I love, but I still appreciate her for remembering that I love apples at all. And it helps me to be grateful and appreciate what I have.
I adore my little sister, who was given to me by God and who always knows how to surprise me. Even when we argue, I see her bright soul, and I like to communicate with her even more.
I appreciate my kitten, which I can’t teach to go to the tray, for helping me become more tolerant and stronger. Because he teaches me to show love anyway, even when they did it to you.
I do not like my soul in my nephew, who is not just smart beyond his years. He is a very wise child. And often his phrases like: “We don’t get offended in our family! Only the weak stomp behind! Do not return evil for evil! And thanks? You forgot to say thank you! help me become wiser and more enlightened. He brings up in me not only the ability not to be offended, but also to respect all men in his face.
I am immensely grateful to our neighbor, who continues to teach me about life and always inserts her signature phrases into our everyday conversation. But she also teaches me to hear myself and have my own opinion.
I respect and appreciate my boss, who is not always satisfied with my work, and sometimes can scold me. But he has many good qualities. And he also teaches me to be myself, to appreciate myself, to praise myself when others do not. In general, he helps me get up from my knees when they put you down on them. And I become even stronger and continue to thank him for it. He is a big guy. He pays me well and I love my job.
And I also forgot to say about my beloved friend, who understands and supports all my undertakings. Which is not only interested, but also takes an active part in my life.
And now I’m happy just like that. Communicating, meeting, reconciling and cursing, I am still happy.
All this brings me joy. Life brings me joy.
And I have no idea how to explain it to other people.
How to talk about the importance of happiness and peace of mind. Self love and joy in life. A lot has been written, everything has long been known and the phrases are all beaten, but people continue to envy, get angry and be unhappy.
I don’t know how it got to me. But believe me, three months ago I was different.
And now love and joy have become much more valuable to me, and not resentment and anger, criticism and neglect. Now I am a light man. I am like a good fairy who gives joy, loves and thanks everyone.
What about getting married? Oh yes. Why do I want to get married now?
I understand that a man who will be next to me should not make me happy. He will help me move towards my dreams, towards my goals, towards God. We will, like two halves of one whole, help each other move forward, and not interfere, as happens in modern families!