In principle, this is not difficult, but it is important to take it calmly, without tension: if you captivate — excellent, if you do not captivate — it’s okay, he will come to this later. Most often, you don’t have to do anything special: the very fact that you lead an active lifestyle energizes those around you and pushes you to cheerfulness. An active lifestyle is contagious. If you are really interested in living energetically, it will show in your eyes, in your impatience to go to the pool or to the gym, or to the park — to run. Don’t make up your mind, but when the weather is nice, when your partner is in a good mood and not busy, just take him with you to fitness or for a run. Most likely, you will succeed. After all, together — you both feel better, you really want to spend more time together.
Sometimes the best decision is a spontaneous decision, suddenly they decided — and immediately went. And in some cases it is better to start a conversation in advance so that the partner has the opportunity to plan their affairs. Some people like to plan ahead, which means you are more likely to be accepted. We talked at breakfast in a good mood, planned to go to the pool in a week — which means that the pool will take place, especially if you rejoiced at this out loud on occasion during the week, supported the decision of your partner.
Actually, it is not always necessary to captivate a partner, you can simply organize it. We talked, thought, decided that you need it — and then according to the plan. That is, they thought through all the little things, made it convenient both for themselves and for their partner. If it’s a run, then where and at what time? If joint activities, then which of your hobbies will most likely interest your partner? A fragile girl-philologist is unlikely to be seriously attracted to parkour, but you can go to dances to mutual pleasure. By the way, it’s easier to get women interested in sports or some kind of activity if you choose beautiful equipment for them: someone will not understand this, but for women their appearance is important, and in a nice suit she will be more willing to go to yoga ☺.
And remember: it is important to make an “easy start”. Many prefer to sit back because they are afraid that they will not succeed, that they will look bad, that they will be laughed at and that they will scold themselves for awkwardness and mistakes … And you just take care that the very beginning turned out to be easy, relaxed and festive, without criticism and dissatisfaction, so that your partner has only joyful associations with this business as a result. Most people are self-possessed enough to keep themselves in the holiday spirit on someone else’s birthday or New Year’s Eve. So create a similar atmosphere — at least for yourself personally, at least for your soul mate. For this alone, it will be a pleasure to be with you.
Let your active lifestyle become your common joy!