I am a pretty, self-sufficient, well-educated woman. I have three children: two students and a schoolgirl. I read, dance, actively spend the weekend, I love music, theater. But I can’t meet a person according to my heart, although I am quite sociable. So the problem is with me?
Olga, 47 years
The question, frankly, is widespread, but, alas, does not yet have a universal solution.
In your case, Olga, I would do a little research: what kind of person is he after his heart? What qualities does he have, what role do you assign to him (husband, lover, good friend)? Is there a place in your life for him?
After all, when you write that you are self-sufficient, it is quite logical to assume that you are quite enough of yourself. Try to dream up what a partner could bring into your life? And honestly, do you need it?
By answering these questions, you can see in which direction to move forward. Or figure out why relationships with men do not work out and which relationships suit you best. Either trying to understand why not being married or having a couple is a problem.
After all, the time of the stereotype “A woman can be considered accomplished only when she is married and with children” is in the past. And now we can afford to live the way we want and the way we ourselves consider right.
muna godeeya