Author — A.P. Egides. The book «How to understand people, or the Psychological drawing of personality»
Hysteroid and money are subtle matter. Of course, he is “above” money, money is dirt, what can I say about it, but at the same time, it’s nowhere without it, you have to put up with it.
The hysteroid does not hold money. He squanders them, eats them up, drinks them down. Often the hysteroid buys a lot of unnecessary things on the principle of «buy first, and then think.» He can, like hyperthym, cut off seven times without measuring once. As opposed to the paranoid, who measures once and cuts once, and the epileptoid, who measures seven times and cuts only once. And it doesn’t look like a psychastenoid who measures seven times and never cuts off.
The hysteroid is forever in debt, he lives on credit. Life on loan is about him. He cannot repay all his debts on time, they accumulate. When he is pressed, he re-borrows, but all the same, debts grow. He avoids dealing with creditors. Often, when a creditor calls, he or she is “out of the house”. Then he finds new companies, he also makes debts there, and the process repeats. Therefore, he almost never has money, but he pretends that he does, only, they say, now he doesn’t have it with him, but he does, you just need to withdraw or exchange dollars from the account, which are now in the safe, but the key is at work (or at home, and it’s a long way to go there), — lend a couple of thousand …
The hysteroid is chic, squandering, often at the expense of others. He will spend a little, but this is “all I have with me”, and there, you see, others will become generous and treat him. He spends other people’s money that accidentally got to him, does not try to make up for them. Shakes money out of friends. The hysteroid doesn’t count money, he’s not an epileptoid, he’s still not a psychasthenoid, God forbid, it’s them misers who keep count of their money, but he doesn’t count either his own or other people’s money that he spent on himself. Spends them using the trust of simpletons, and that’s it.
In the family of a hysteroid, because of his extravagance, conflicts are constantly brewing, as often there is not enough to live on. Especially if the spouse is an epileptoid. In terms of correction, it makes sense, in addition to agreements on the main goals of the family, to allocate money especially for household needs, to divide the rest in percentages or absolute amounts that the wife and husband spend at their discretion, so that there would be a kind of division into compartments, each of which has another does not intrude.
But imagine that the hysteroid was reproached for not repaying the debt.
“I always give on time; think, I just forgot, I won’t have anything to do with you at all, you reproach me with a trifle, I’ll return them now! «And he’ll over-borrow and throw them in your face.»