Contents
If you observe the features of hyperthym in yourself and want to correct your features, then first look at the articles:
- Positive personality development
- How to work on yourself
After that your program:
- Rejoice that you are so strong, but do not be so arrogant: more respect for people.
- Take a piece of paper and a pen, write down all your immediate and distant plans, after which cross out half of them here and there. And forget. Teach yourself to set only realistic plans, focus on the immediate tasks, do them efficiently and on time. By the way, do you have any student debts?
- If you have good friends, make yourself a “Black Chair” at the next gathering: let them tell you in an organized way all the claims against you. On this basis, make commitments and fulfill them, and in order to do this, define strong sanctions for non-compliance. To begin with, put the matter under public control, and when you like being a decent person (from the word «order»), you can look after yourself.
- Introduce the scientific organization of work into your personal and business life. Tidy up your room, desk, and bag. Write down everything you need — either in a notebook or on reminder cards. Start writing the tasks of the day and do what you have planned, see →
- Punish yourself for every unfinished business and broken promise. Teach yourself to respect your words: a word is also an act. Decided to say — must do.
If you are missing the traits of hyperthym and would like to develop some of them, then check out the article The Best Traits of Hyperthym: How to Develop
Correction
From the book of A.P. Egides «How to understand people, or Psychological drawing of personality»
To save hyperthym, it must be pastured. Save from random small unsightly acts, from manifestations of ingratitude on his part. He needs to be reminded, kept, encouraged. Then he will be a good member of society. If I am dealing with hyperthyms, then I entrust the case to five at once. One of them, however, may be doing what is needed. And I don’t take offense at others who didn’t fulfill the promise: I know that hyperthyms are optional people.
But hyperthym itself can work on itself: it is not oligophrenic. We, hyperthyms, take into account all our minuses, compensate them with our pluses. We will keep reminder notes, conduct a more thorough moral and psychological analysis of situations, scrupulously monitor our debts. Let us tell ourselves that order is easy to follow, and we will. We will treat sexual relations with a great sense of responsibility. Let’s not only be responsive, but also sensitive to the state of people, refrain from lying… Hyperthym energy — for good purposes!