Human weaknesses are something that is at odds with a person’s idea of what should be, but is present in his life through his own efforts. This is a soft, politically correct name — the name of our or other people’s bad habits.
Women treat their weaknesses rather with understanding, consider indulging their weaknesses as a manifestation of self-love. “Shopping, tiramisu, and chatting is nice, isn’t it?” Another option is to worry and engage in self-discipline.
Men love to fight and overcome, so they usually fight with their weaknesses. However, in case of failure, they may well demonstrate any variant of defensive behavior: both worry and begin to be proud of their weaknesses.
Dialogue with the forum:
— But this is ridiculous, is there really no woman in your environment who can help you and whose help you accept? Moreover, no matter how you hide your weaknesses, they still come out, and denying the obvious is ridiculous and stupid, especially since no one is trying to “poke you with their nose”, but they are trying to help you somehow.
— And why is the presence of weaknesses associated with help? For example, I have a weakness — I really like to cook meat and then eat it with wine. Weakness? Yes, weakness, because it is harmful, time-consuming, etc. Do I need help, especially women with this? Never! Women out of the kitchen! Only a joint meal — but this has nothing to do with helping!
Strong, strong-willed people do not allow themselves weakness, watching this as an indicator of the safety of the inner core of their personality. If this is close to you, exclude small weaknesses and laziness from your life. Do what you must, without arguing or even thinking about this topic, because our laziness and weaknesses are cunning, they will definitely convince you if you give them at least some opportunity and a loophole: “Now it’s not necessary”, “I’ll leave it for later” , “Maybe he is”, “Something is not in the mood today”, “And so it will do”, etc. In such cases, you just need to take it and do it! A good name for this principle is Our Father.
If you were born in a peasant family of the 19th century, no one would ask you whether you should pray in the morning, in the evening and before meals or not. No one would ask if you are in the mood or if you don’t want something. Can it be postponed or not? Prayer is the basis of life and the daily routine, and for reasoning on this topic before dinner, you can get a spoon on your forehead or, even worse, fly out from behind the table. The same is true in our lives.
As our father should pour cold water. How our father to do exercises. As our father to put things in order on the table. As our father does not watch serials. As our father go to bed on time. As our Father, first do urgent important work, then the rest. Otherwise, you are the one who is engaged in nonsense in his life.
Decide what for you is included in this basis of life and in this list of «Our Father» — and then tell your weaknesses that you have already made decisions, and this is not discussed. Start living the right way. This is possible. Will you?