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😉 Greetings to regular and new readers! Tips on how to properly raise a girl will be useful to young parents and people who have a granddaughter, younger sister or niece.
They say that raising a boy is more difficult than raising a girl. Boys are more naughty and girls are more accommodating. However, this statement is not entirely true, and the reason lies in character and behavior.
After all, the requirements for the girl are completely different. She must be gentle and kind, she is a future wife and mother. The girl must be well mannered and behave like a lady.
How to Raise Girls Properly
Now on the Internet there is a saying: raising a boy – raising a man, raising a girl – raising a nation. And this is correct, because everything that you put in the mind of a girl will then go to her offspring. The girl is the foundation of the future generation. The boy is the protector, wall and support of the generation.
However, what is happening in reality, and how we see girls on the street, is not at all encouraging. The girl is taught to paint correctly in order to attract attention, and live with the idea that she is a princess.
But daughters are not taught to be industrious. Modern girls do not know how to cook, few can boast of having a hobby like sewing or knitting. So, when and where to start upbringing?
Upbringing begins as soon as the child speaks and begins to perceive the world around him. It is necessary to explain to the girl in an accessible form what is good and what is bad.
Even adults understand the truth more easily when they step on a rake themselves. Therefore, the child should be allowed to try to do something. Never say the phrase: “You don’t know how, don’t tackle”, replace it with “you don’t know how, watch and learn”.
Influence of cartoons
A very serious influence on the child is exerted not only by relatives and friends, but also films and cartoons that they watch. However, not all cartoons are good examples. Most of the modern children’s cartoons are dangerous for children, or rather, for their psyche and morality.
It is better for parents to watch the cartoon with their child and analyze it aloud. As in a literature lesson, ask the question of what a particular cartoon character is doing. What idea did the author of the cartoon want to convey to the child?
Of course, it is difficult to prohibit a child from watching cartoons, but they can be filtered. Show, for example, not on TV, but from a computer, downloading safe, in your opinion, cartoons.
Good advice: read your little one bedtime stories. It is very important! Let this be your good tradition. Instill in your child a love of good books.
Physical development and health
Many mothers feel very sorry for their daughters, cherishing them in warmth, and smart mothers are not afraid to temper their daughters. This is a minimum of clothes, a contrast shower and a lot of movement. Girls who sit warm are getting cold.
A slender and vigorous girl has more chances for success in life and the creation of an excellent family. Therefore, the girl must definitely go in for sports. The choice is large: figure skating, skiing, gymnastics, roller skating, cycling, tennis and running. She does not need strength, but flexibility and grace.
Swimming is encouraged, but the swim section is different. Swimmers develop broad male shoulders and a minimum of femininity.
Rhythmic gymnastics, yoga, fitness and tennis are another matter. But the best thing is dancing! First folk, then ballroom or sports.
Beauty and neatness
Your daughter is beautiful! Remind her of this more often. But beauty must be followed. Good habits in the morning:
- Make your bed.
- Wash, brush your teeth and tidy up your hair.
- Get dressed
Walking around the room and having breakfast in a nightgown is unacceptable! Princesses and ladies don’t do that.
Up to 12 years old, no cosmetics! It is important to do music, handicrafts, painting and create beauty around you. From the age of 12, you can gradually learn the art of cosmetics.
Cosmetics are not a plaster for a young face, but to emphasize the beauty given by nature. Subtle eye shadow and blush, subtle lip gloss, light touches of mascara.
In clothes, teach how to choose a style and a combination of colors. The right wardrobe will help the girl not to make impulsive purchases of clothes. Do not forget about the rules of etiquette at the table, in the theater and in transport.
The girl grows up
Adolescence is especially dangerous for girls, when their interest in adult life begins to wake up. It is enhanced by films about a beautiful glamorous life, glossy magazines and women’s websites.
The girls start to paint themselves, making themselves a “magazine cover”. It is not necessary to forbid all this to a daughter, but it is worth instilling in her true values, protecting her from false ones.
Here you can recommend the domestic series “Damned Paradise”. The film tells about the girls’ pursuit of rich grooms and a beautiful easy life, but almost all the heroes of this tape pay for their desires. For the moral education of the girl, this film will be an ideal lesson.
Little mistress
Train your daughter to help in the kitchen. The main thing for mom here is to have patience. Of course, it’s easier to cook by yourself than to explain, correcting your daughter’s mistakes. The correct option is when the daughter is cooking, and the mother tells and helps.
Teaching to wash clothes is very simple: we sort the clothes and show the necessary buttons on the washing machine. The little housewife should be able to clean up the closet, water the flowers, dust and clean the floor.
Teaching a daughter to be a good housewife is a very difficult mission. After all, everyone around tends to walk and visit clubs, and this can end badly. This does not mean that the daughter must stay at home all the time and help her mother make dumplings and bake pies. Almost every girl will say: “Mom, why? You can buy everything? “
Of course, sometimes you can buy ready-made food, but handmade food is much healthier and cheaper. Here you can talk about the energy characteristics of food. And the joint molding of dumplings unites the whole family, at work you can have a leisurely conversation, solve family issues.
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