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🙂 Hello dear readers! How to raise a boy properly? This information will be useful for young parents, grandmothers, grandfathers, uncles and aunts of the child.
All parents want to see a man in their son – strong, decisive, able to set goals and achieve them. However, more and more guys growing up do not have the qualities that should be inherent in a real man.
In a modern family, a woman mainly works – washing, cooking, cleaning. The only place where boys can prove themselves is the dacha, but who is eager to go there today to work? Meanwhile, the summer cottage is an excellent school for the future owner. You can work in the garden, rummage in the car, get building skills.
If a boy is growing up in the family, it will not be superfluous to have a dog. By the way, do you know what qualities the presence of a dog forms in a small person?
- A dog is an active member of the family with whom you need to run and exercise, which means that the baby develops physically.
- You need to walk with the dog, feed and clean up after it, which means that responsibility is formed.
- Dog training is a set of orders. The dog must be given clear commands. This is the development of management skills.
However, responsibility is not the only quality a boy needs. The main quality of a future man is the ability to protect himself and those who are dear to him. It is a good idea to practice in a karate, judo or other men’s sports section. Do not forget to teach the guy the basics of etiquette, this has not been canceled yet!
Of course, the main factor in the development and upbringing of a son is the father’s personal example. But this example is not always positive. In addition, today there are a lot of inferior families.
There are also many families where fathers practically do not participate in the upbringing of children. Some consider this occupation a woman’s responsibility, others spend a lot of time at work, financially providing for the family.
Therefore, all responsibilities for education are transferred to women. However, the attention and care of the mother is not enough to form all the necessary qualities in the son.
How to Raise Boys Properly
Do not limit the child with the words: “do not touch”, “do not climb”, “do not poke your nose”. By limiting the baby’s freedom and overprotecting him, mothers and grandmothers bring up a modest shy person who is unable to resist anyone. Therefore, it would be more correct not to stop the child, but to give advice on how to do better.
Never lisp with your baby, talk to him on an equal footing, be a friend. Give more independence, trust him. Never physically punish children. Violence can “break” a person and he will become cowardly. Often, children who are beaten by their parents take out their resentment in the cruel treatment of helpless animals.
It is very important for a boy to have an example to follow, and it certainly should be given by a man. It can be not only a father, but also an older brother, grandfather, uncle. The main thing is that the boy has a model of courage and responsibility.
At an older age, it is advisable for a guy to engage in a sports section led by a man. As a teenager, he will need an experienced and intelligent mentor.
Always encourage any child’s initiative. The initiative should not be punished, even if it is ridiculous in your opinion. Just explain to the young man how his idea can be improved.
Teach your child to be responsible for their actions. Show this by example. If you make a mistake, feel free to come up and ask for forgiveness. This can help develop a sense of justice in the child.
I would like to say a few words about conscription. Today it is customary to protect the son from the debt to the fatherland by any means. But is it right? The service will be especially useful for those children who grew up without fathers. The army is a good school for a man, which forms many good qualities:
- self-discipline and self-control;
- the ability to defend and protect others;
- responsibility for their words and actions;
- ability to command and control.
Service in the army is able to “knock out” a “mama’s son” out of a guy, if he became such because of wrong upbringing. Therefore, no matter how much you feel sorry for your boy, it is better to send him to the army. It will only do him good.
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In this video, useful tips from a psychologist on how to properly raise a boy
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