A psychologically difficult situation does not have to be lived with an unhappy face and difficult experiences. Strong people know how to keep themselves always.
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Everyone has difficulties in life, and there is no need to make unhappy or desperate eyes, blame yourself or others, groan and pretend to be tired.
All you have to do is get together (get yourself together), analyze the resources (think about what or who can help), think through the possibilities (solutions) and take action. Simply put, turn on your head and move in the right direction.
In difficult situations, people of a high level of psychological culture take responsibility and look for a solution, while people of low culture worry or look for the culprit. To overcome life’s difficulties, you need to reformulate difficulties and problems into a task (see Translating a Problem into a Task) and solve a life task→. See Solving life problems.
There are difficult situations in life, but the experience of hopelessness is another. Hopelessness is a dark experience through which weak people harm themselves. to take revenge on life and others.
To overcome life’s difficulties, you need mental strength, intelligence and mental flexibility. Men are more characterized by mental strength, women — mental flexibility. See Masculine and feminine
How to develop mental strength? See article
Typical difficulties in self-development
Those who have been engaged in self-development, self-development, also know the typical difficulties: the new is scary, there are many doubts, many things do not work right away, but you want everything at once — we scatter, sometime we calm down on the illusion of the result, sometime we go astray and return to the old course . What to do with it? See →
Shooting will be at dawn
“He was to be shot at dawn. At dawn — this is great luck. There is still time. He lay face down in complete darkness. Probably kicked to the door — thrown. The back was torn into meat and sprinkled with salt. The pain brought him out of his trance. Pain was an ally. The hands tied behind were numb. He rolled onto his back, and the pain razed his mind. He was silent and came to his senses. He just forgot: leg. The left leg got under the horse. A horse was killed under him. He rested his right heel on the earthen floor and crawled his shoulders … ”- Those who give in to difficulties, we recommend reading this story by Mikhail Weller.