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On the eve of Valentine’s Day, the lack of the second half is especially acute. Therefore, just before this holiday, we decided to publish instructions for our unmarried readers on where and how to meet a guy. Valuable advice to the girls was given by the coach of the Dating Academy Dmitry Melanin.
1. Ask for help
“There are two effective dating methods for girls – proactive and provocative,” says a seduction specialist. Let’s start with initiative. As the name implies, it means that the initiative comes from the girl. But this does not mean at all that a man needs to be taken by the breasts and dragged to the registry office. In this case, the task of the girl is to start acquaintance with a question or request.
At the same time, a fail-safe way, according to experts, is to ask a man for help. For example, ask for help lifting things on an airplane, help choosing a windshield washer in a car shop, etc. Not a single well-mannered man (and girls need just such ones!) Refuses to help the weaker sex. In the meantime, the guy helps her, the girl has the opportunity to start an easy conversation. Find out if there are points of contact. And if they are, exchange contacts.
2. Provoke the man
In this case, the call to “provoke” has an extremely positive connotation. Provoke the man to the first question! To arouse interest in the stronger sex, the expert believes, three important factors will help:
Well-groomed appearance and bright clothes
For example, men willingly react to red outfits – this has been proven experimentally. Also, they will not be indifferent to shoes with heels, mini-skirts, stockings and clothes that emphasize the waist.
Hidden sexual cues
Walking from the hip, a furtive glance, preening gestures (for example, correcting hair), etc. are guaranteed to attract the attention of a man.
Friendliness
And yet the most important thing is to demonstrate to the opposite sex your friendliness and openness. The easiest way to do this is with a smile. And also – do not hesitate to stare at the men you like. An interested friendly look plus a smile is the main formula for a successful acquaintance.