To communicate better, first, you just need to communicate. The one who sits at home and flips through the Internet in the hope of learning how to communicate is busy with the wrong thing. Go to people and learn to communicate.
Please note: do not just communicate, but “learn to communicate”. If until now you have (suddenly) done only two things in communication — you were angry when the interlocutor spoke beautifully, and you were sarcastic when he was wrong, then it is stupid to continue such communication, strengthening in it. The art of communication needs to be learned, like any other good deed.
How? Break this big deal into several smaller things and work on each area sequentially. There are many different tasks and directions in the art of communication, and in order to master everything successfully, it is better not to take on everything at once, but to master it in parts.
A good conversationalist is an interesting conversationalist. To be able to joke, surprise, intrigue, inspire — wonderful skills! This includes the ability to notice the unexpected in the usual, the ability to play with your intonation, and not mutter inarticulately under your breath so that the interlocutor tenses up.
Indeed, pay attention to the tempo and timbre of your voice, record yourself and your conversations on a voice recorder (this is convenient for those who have a recording function on their phone) — and by changing the characteristics of your voice, make it so that you like it.
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