Prove by your example that the most passionate feelings do not have an expiration date.
The life of almost every couple develops according to a predetermined scenario. No matter how you resist, stomp your feet and beat your chest with the words: “This definitely won’t happen to me!” Psychologists state that the inspiring feeling of falling in love disappears after two or three years of marriage. Daily surprises, burning passion, flaming messages and frank glances replace working days, and in place of the once raging volcano, complete calm appears in the heart. Why is this happening? How to bring back juiciness and romance in a relationship?
The most popular explanation is that strong love emotions fade due to the fact that we lose the instinct of conquest. The main goal (family, children, home, stable harmonious union, patronage, protection) has been achieved. It seems that happiness has come and immediately moved to another, calmer level, you no longer have to worry about anything, there is nothing to strive for. But that’s not the case at all.
If you are thinking that it is time to bring romance into your union, then all is not lost. The main thing is to act, and not sit and wait for everything to work out by itself. Put a little effort, perseverance and drive away laziness from yourself — only a genuine desire to do something unforgettable for your partner will help you easily overcome any difficulties. Introduce notes of romance into your measured life gradually — spend more time together, have fun, dream, tell each other stories with enthusiasm and fool around. Most importantly, flirt with your partner! This is a great way to wake up dormant feelings. Men are by nature reckless, and women are flirtatious. This must be used to stir up interest in each other. Say what you like, but strong representatives like to seek the love and attention of the fair half. Try to simulate a romantic situation in which he wants to conquer you again. For example, instead of the classic «eat and go to bed» dinner, offer an exciting psychological game … of two strangers.
Imagine that you saw each other for the first time and now you cannot take your eyes off, anticipating the continuation. A love story scenario through his eyes might be: “She hurried out of the elevator. Only a few floors together, and he could no longer think of anything else but her. The trail of her fragrance remained in the air, he immediately recognized it, it became a sign for him. The idea that they might never meet again struck him as implausible. An hour ago, he did not suspect of her existence, and now he rushed in search of her, forgetting about everything in the world.
And now her vision: “He just looked into her eyes. Many men had done this before, but for some reason, when she got out of the elevator, she forgot where and why she was in a hurry. Everything has become so insignificant. She was overcome with excitement. Her head spun as soon as she remembered the touch of his gaze. Has it been a few minutes or an eternity?
General ending: “The man held the girl tightly by the hand. As before, a strong and warm wind blew, the city roared, but for them the world became different, because love came into it. Can you feel the wings growing behind your back?
Make everything as believable as possible: you and your partner need to get used to the roles of lovers you have forgotten. Think over every detail of your image for an unexpected date, surprise him, become that very desirable stranger who you long to get to know better. It is not necessary to buy an expensive outfit for this: the effect of surprise will help create a new perfume. Do you want maximum resemblance to the heroes of a love story? Your choice is a fragrant pair of Yohji Yamamoto, an absolute hit in the chain of stores . The scent for her is a multi-layered revelation: from pink pepper and Italian lemon through rose, grapes and jasmine to Indonesian patchouli, vanilla and musk. Transformation for him is a complex combination of black pepper, nutmeg, cardamom, grapefruit, lavender, sandalwood and patchouli. Try this couple of «scented strangers» in action, and they will rekindle smoldering feelings with new romantic power.