PSYchology
Film «Coco before Chanel»

Koko loves and knows how to make beautiful and comfortable things. Coco heard that it was in demand — Coco Chanel found her life’s work.

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Your business is the work that you love, which is in demand and which you do masterfully.

Your job is not necessarily your calling. A vocation is not only a favorite thing, it is a business for which others highly appreciate you and in which you are not just a master, but a real professional.

Nevertheless, how to find your own business in life, your favorite business, which you want to do? The answer will not be easy, because choosing a vocation is always more than just choosing whether I want to do this or not.

Indeed, you can and should listen to your inner mood: mine is not mine.

You can listen, and in many cases the feeling of “Mine!” is quite real. form. How? See Finding Your Calling.

But to be limited to one of them is debatable. There are different types of people who, according to different schemes, are looking for their calling. Some people have their weak side — their skills (in fact, they can do very little masterfully) — and then they adjust their Calling to the skills they have. Others, and this is not uncommon, have problems with their weak and unclear desires … But if a person generally wants little and dislikes almost everything, how will he find what he will do with both perseverance and desire?

Question: Is it true that there are so few things in the world that you want to do — or have you rather lost the general ability to want, desire, strive? Can you now, immediately, offhand think of ten, fifteen, thirty things that you would like to do? If you can — great, you will find your business. If not, you need not to search for your own business, but to restore vitality and correct something in your views on life, people and business. A good coach is needed here, a good coach will help you.

A physically vigorous and mentally healthy person can also find it difficult to choose his own business, but not because he doesn’t want something, but because he wants everything, that it’s hard for him to give up many other desires, dreams and aspirations in the name of one thing. life choice. His cry: how do I choose one of my want?! After all, I want a lot!

Total

When it comes to finding your own business, it’s easiest to start with what you’re good at. The more versatile you are, the more different things you can do, the easier it will be for you to find your own business. This is the first step.

The second step is the question: what is in demand now? What do people need, what are people willing to pay for?

The third step — what do you personally want to do?

If you suddenly don’t want anything, you can start from this point — make a list of things that you don’t want to do for sure. If you don’t want anything at all, correct your displeased face, you have been walking with him for too long. You need positive and energy, without this you will not find your business anywhere.

Perhaps it is important for you that your business also makes sense to people. If someone sells vodka and cigarettes (this is in demand), does it skillfully and with pleasure, this is ordinary wrecking, and not a worthy business. Make sure that people respect you for your cause, so that you yourself respect yourself for what you are doing.

If you have found yours, and the cause is worthy, congratulations. The next peak is to find your calling!


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