Hello! The law of balance is one of the basic laws of the universe and consists in maintaining a balance between such processes as giving and taking. And today we will learn how to use this law correctly.
General information
We are a part of the Universe and basically strive to become happy. But for this you need to follow the rules. It’s like driving a car.
If you do not adhere to the accepted rules of the road and drive the way you want, then the police will definitely pay attention to this, which threatens with a fine or even deprivation of a driver’s license. And this is at best. At worst, as you understand, an accident, especially if fatal.
There are forces that monitor the implementation of the law of balance and, in case of violation, simply restore the balance, returning everything to its place. And do not think that this is some kind of mysticism. Not at all. This law is also observed in psychology, physics, economics, medicine …
And by forces is meant nature itself. Some are closer to the idea of God. The right of everyone to believe in what he sees fit. The main thing is that the meaning and the result are the same.
How is balance restored?
A system that has been unbalanced will surely return to its previous state. Over time, gradually, sometimes with victims, but under any conditions it will recover.
For example, if a country starts producing more money than it needs, inflation will overtake it. If it produces an excessive amount of goods, their value will fall, as a result of which there will be a crisis of overproduction. Expand the number of factories in one area, to improve the economic condition through the export of products — there will be an ecological disaster.
And although all the consequences seem extremely negative, they are necessary, this is the price of restoring harmony, exactly the state that was originally.
The balance between giving and taking must be observed by every person if he wants to live happily. Healthy strong and close relationships cannot be built if you only demand from a partner, without trying to give him something in return. It doesn’t matter if we are talking about material values or feelings. As well as sacrificing yourself, trying to serve him.
Endurance and activity also arise from this principle. I consume products — I act. The body absorbs useful substances, this gives energy that a person realizes.
And what happens to those who simply consume food, preferring not to give anything outside? They gain weight, become inactive. In extreme cases, completely immobile.
What about those who eat little and work hard? They are gradually depleted, as they only spend energy without making up for the loss. A striking example is anorexia, a mental disorder characterized by eating disorders. In short, when there is a complete rejection of food.
What to do?
Despite the fact that our world is constantly changing, it is, as it were, a single organism. Of which each of us is a part. Accordingly, we must take care of it. And how can we do it?
- Use resources wisely
It means to consume only what is necessary for survival, existence in general. Also, things should be the same with production. In everything there should be harmony, measure.
An interesting fact is that most individuals who have huge fortunes are engaged in charity work. That is, they understand that they have received, albeit deservedly, more than necessary and are trying to return at least a small part back, only for good.
- Help other people without asking for anything in return
It is your right to make this world a better place, or not. And if you have made a decision to help someone, do it with the knowledge that you made the decision yourself, and therefore you are responsible for it.
Even if you are asked, you can always refuse, no one can force you. Except in violent situations. And if you are being manipulated to get your way, remember that it was your choice to agree to the terms and give in.
So drop your expectations of gratitude and other blessings. By doing good without demanding it in return, you will receive more than you could. Namely, a sense of inner balance. In addition, it is believed that the Universe returns the good that you have done to the world back, only several times more.
- Find the meaning of your purpose
If we are part of the universe, then we must perform certain functions, roles that have been assigned. Like the gears of one big process. If a failure occurs, it threatens to stop the entire system. Which, of course, is out of the question. Accordingly, it replaces failed gears.
That is why it is so important to find yourself, the thing that captivates and succeeds. We must definitely like it, only in this case the Universe will receive a return. As a result, of course, to give even more in return.
Completion
And that’s all for today, dear readers! Finally, I want to recommend that you read the article, which will help you understand your purpose. You can find it by clicking on this link.
Take care of yourself, nature and be happy!
The material was prepared by a psychologist, Gestalt therapist, Zhuravina Alina