How to become interesting — and very interesting

​​​​​​​People appreciate interesting conversationalists. An interesting young man is more likely to be in the spotlight and take a leadership position in the group, and in communicating with girls — to win their sympathy. Similarly, if a girl is not only attractive in appearance, but also interesting as a person, she will have better friends, it is easier for her to get married and remain a dear companion for her husband for a long time. However, an interesting person is not only an interesting interlocutor, it is something more. You can master not very complex tricks and in a few months, using proven techniques, increase your rating of an interesting interlocutor, but to seriously become an interesting person, you need more time. To become interesting or interesting is to become a versatile, internally deep and outwardly bright attractive person.

How to become interesting and attractive to others?

• Take an interest in others. You can ask people about them, about their experiences and attitude to vital problems.
• Participate in interpersonal and interactive activities, preferably informal, such as personal development workshops and effective communication workshops. These events explore topics such as love, relationships, sexuality and the like.
• It is useful, among other things, to take care of your image. Update your hair and wardrobe. For those who are especially shy, I recommend wearing more visible clothes in bright colors. It is worth consulting with a loved one, and if possible, go to a good image studio.
• Sign up for a club, circles and parties according to your interests: aerobics, sports, dancing, singing, art sessions, psychodrama meetings, support groups or amateur photographers. Yes, even in a botanical circle — it is necessary to escape from the cell of solitary confinement at any cost.

If you are shy, shy, and all this is difficult for you, start doing everything just slowly, starting with the easiest for you and it is better not alone, but in good company. As for your fears and unpleasant sensations in the body, then yes, this happens to everyone. More often allow yourself to go beyond the comfort zone and write down, at least be aware of all these sensations in the body: for example: intense sweating under the arms, throbbing in the temples, scratching on the palms, pressure in the chest. Usually, if you try to write down these sensations, they become weaker and go away. Similarly, inventing and writing down metaphors that express the state of the body and soul helps.

If you are smart and lively, then shyness is not terrible for you. You can be shy, you can sometimes be terribly afraid of something, but if you are smart and lively, you will develop what you need in yourself. In this case, its ability to be interesting to people.

I rewrote all the authors, just as quietly returned the notebook and did not get out of the library for a month: I got acquainted with prose, Gumilyov, Severyanin, Tsvetaeva, Pasternak, Tarkovsky and Akhmadullina became my favorite poets. Well, but in Olga’s notebook there were poems and Efim: I understood, I began to write myself, and Olga controlled the level. For dreary garbage she ridiculed immediately, a decent poem gave me her attention for a whole change, a collection of poems was an occasion to invite her to visit. Well, every month she was my guest … Competition and challenge are tough conditions, but only in such conditions is character forged. Cm…

Psychological training helps to overcome your shyness, develop sociability and become more interesting. Psychological training does not replace independent work, but is a good help in it. Trainings support, captivate, give tips and energy to move on, help to find new friends. The only point worth paying attention to is the choice of a training center, since not every trainer is able to feel a person, find the right approach to him and skillfully remove the shell of shyness. Choose only proven centers with highly qualified specialists. The largest training center in Russia is the Sinton center, and the Sinton program is one of the most reliable, environmentally friendly and effective training programs. There are four main trainings in the Synton program — we recommend:

• communication skill,
• EMOTION MANAGEMENT: energy, happiness, freedom,
• PATH OF SUCCESS: technology to achieve dreams
• Course «Personal life».