How to become an elite woman

There are men that women dream of — smart, worthy, loving men. And what kind of woman do such men dream of? How to become a woman for whom the best men will fight?

Let’s call her an elite woman, but we will not mean the secular elite with intrigues and scandals, but a woman — the embodiment of a dream. Who does not like the name «elite woman», you will come up with your own names that are more suitable for you: Ideal woman, «Queen Woman», «Woman with a capital letter»?

Yes, she is beautiful, beautiful in appearance — but almost any woman who looks after herself is beautiful, a woman who is well-groomed and in good physical shape (this is the first thing you can see from afar. If you want to draw attention to yourself, pay attention to how you are today look). Not focusing on calls to “be a little fool,” an elite woman is smart, truly educated (higher education is a must. And then study all your life. What study do you plan to devote yourself to in the near future?), erudite, always in development. Appeals from women’s trainings “allow yourself to be a woman” are empty, just like saying to a young man: “Let yourself be an academician!”. It won’t work, you need to work — look at articles on the development of femininity.

It is true that men love fools, but the full truth is that they love them for a short time, but respect them — never. A female queen for her man can portray a fool when it is appropriate and fun, but the main style of her behavior and communication is status and self-respect. Without listening to the slogans “turn off her head”, she behaves “with her head” in any situation, she is reasonable, she knows her goals very well and she has developed self-control. Girls want to relax and immerse themselves in the flow of emotions, but this is not what an elite woman lives for. She has deep feelings and vivid emotions, but she owns her emotions, not her emotions. The mind of an elite woman is calm, but never turns off. Her mind is the development of positions of perception: she knows her own needs, and feels the needs of other people, she knows how to look at everything from a distance and see distant prospects, and at the same time, the position of an Angel is close to her: disinterested care for those near and far.

She remembers that the strength of a woman is in her weakness, but her strength is not only in this. She is self-confident, she has the courage to value herself and state her desires, she dares to be demanding, able to insist on her legitimate interests from the list of what is realistic to achieve. She knows perfectly well what a format is in a relationship, and will never allow disrespect for herself. Of course, she is a leader, but she knows how to do it so tactfully and rather covertly, using, among other things, positive manipulations — so that the man next to her will always feel respected and significant. She knows how to raise people’s self-esteem, support their best aspirations, make them great and strong people. Behind every great man is she — a woman-queen.

She is distinguished by culture, good manners and good manners, and this always makes an impression on close acquaintance. She has a soft voice, correct pronunciation, smooth movements and beautiful soft gestures. The queen is all about taste and style, which doesn’t get in the way, but only emphasizes her sexuality and creates the right backdrop for her female military arsenal. She knows how to win men — the best men!

A queen woman is always in a good mood, warm and friendly, and even in difficult situations she is characterized by regret instead of discontent, there is no nightmare, horror, tantrums and impulsive reactions, there is endurance and tolerance, calmness and efficiency. She does not play suffering and helplessness, she does not blame or make excuses, she confidently behaves like the author of her life, charging people with her energy and infecting with optimism. She has lively eyes, the general feeling from her is the Sun.

Such simple things as honesty and attitude towards the family are wonderful decorations for an elite woman! For her man, she is a Muse and an ally. Among decent people, she chooses her man with both her mind and her heart, she knows how to love faithfully and wisely, building relationships in such a way that there is no place for jealousy and sick attachments. She knows how to love and chooses those whom it is definitely worth loving, whom it is impossible not to love.

Yes, she is loving and caring, but her love is wise and picky. In her love, she is not sticky, she knows how to be with a man when he needs it, but she is not the one who takes care of him from morning to evening, not knowing anything else in her life. Her love and care is not the whole content of her life. The ideal woman is a person, she, in addition to caring for a man, has her own values ​​uXNUMXbuXNUMXband her own big life — at least she can have. She will not fall in love with someone unknown, she exchanges part of her big life for caring only for a real man. By the way, men truly appreciate only such love: if a woman in her life has nothing but a man, if she has nothing else to do without a man, the price of her care is small.

Where to start teaching yourself?

Descending from the dream to the ground, we will see that it is difficult to meet the full incarnations of the ideal elite woman. In reality, three different types of beautiful women are more common, and it seems that it makes sense for you to decide which type you are closer to, since this will also be the answer to the question of which man you will be able to create a close relationship with faster.

In any case, you have to work on yourself. It is possible to do this completely independently, but it is more efficient to work in a group of like-minded people and under the guidance of a mentor-trainer. We do not recommend going to women’s trainings right away: their quality is very different, many teach very controversial things. If you find an opportunity, it is better to get trained at the Sinton training center. Start with the training «Personal Life: How to Build a Strong Family» and finish with the women’s training by Irina Miroshnichenko.

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