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How to Become a Good Housewife: Tips
In the famous Smolny Institute, wonderful housewives were released, who were taken as wives by the reigning persons. After all, being a good housewife is a whole science, which was taught in a higher institution. They took exams and left for the second year, not without it. We have collected five basic principles of an ideal housewife, which, we are sure, will make your chosen one look at you in a new way.
Tip # 1: It’s the same job
Surely many people are familiar with the look of bewilderment when, say, in the evening you ask your spouse to make tea or take out the trash. Dissatisfied “you sit at home all day, and I just came home from work tired” will surely haunt you until late at night. And the next day. And a month later.
At the Institute for Noble Maidens, the pupils were told that a housewife is the same worker, only in her own house. At the same time, the girls were instilled with respect for her husband and work, and they were told that she should fulfill her duties impeccably and not phony. Therefore, if suddenly you decide that it is enough for today, now you can lie down in front of the TV with a remote control – you cannot! Do not forget about the distribution of responsibilities, awareness of rights, meetings, a clear schedule of the day and the desire to be in time.
Tip # 2: your interests come first
Remember the saying “a happy wife is a happy husband”? And that makes sense. After all, a housewife is not a slave who must spend the whole day at the stove, rubbing the parquet along the way so that it shines when her spouse arrives. And if you think that first a hot lunch, and then just a beautiful manicure, then you are hopelessly outdated.
Everything was different at the Institute for Noble Maidens. The girls were taught that a good housewife should be calm, rested, and happy. And they even checked for aptitude. Therefore, if you still measure your day by the number of meals prepared, caring for a small child or general cleaning, then you urgently need to go, for example, to the spa and reboot.
Tip # 3: Eating Instead of Snacks
If your motto is “while I was cooking, I’ve already had a bite”, then it’s urgently time to tie it up! You do not want that from constant interceptions, liters of tea and kilograms of biscuits, you blurred and your spouse ran away to another? That’s the same!
In the same institute, the pupils were explained the benefits of a balanced diet and a full family dinner with their spouse. Firstly, in this way it was possible not to worry about extra pounds and a blurry figure, and secondly, a full-fledged hot dinner brings family members closer. It’s so great to get together at a common table and share your emotions from your day. And no gadgets, phones, or TVs!
Tip # 4: the hostess is not a victim
You should never remind at every opportunity that you sacrificed yourself for the sake of family, clean shirts, ringing cleanliness and pink-cheeked babies. Stop treating yourself like a victim! In fact, millions of women around the world dream of retirement as soon as possible and feel like a real housewife.
It has long been known that behind every successful man is an intelligent woman. And most often it is the housewife. After all, a woman, even from an ordinary employee, is able to make a president (not necessarily a country, we will limit ourselves to a company or a club) and then rest in the shadow of his glory. The pupils were taught that a housewife is that lucky woman who had a great chance to build a strong family nest and help her spouse advance in the service.
It is very important to accept yourself for who you are. It doesn’t matter if you have styling or disheveled hair, with a wasp waist or treacherously protruding “ears” in the side area … You just need to love yourself! And then you will want to please yourself, which means that there will be time for your hair, and for rest, and for happiness. After all, a happy wife is … see point 2.