What woman doesn’t dream of marrying a general? That’s right, this is a real man, a strong and responsible person, you follow him like behind a stone wall. Everything is so, but after work he is so tired and exhausted that at best he is no longer up to you, and at worst — he needs to discharge himself on someone … On whom, I wonder — guess?
And how then to meet him? Any inaccuracy, all the more an oversight — and you will be destroyed on the way, because arguing with him is just as promising as resisting a nuclear explosion. There is only one way out: to master the tools of a wise wife and meet her husband correctly. How? Of course we will.
First: your task is to get instructions from the source. Oddly enough, this is usually not the most difficult task. Sometime, when your husband is full, satisfied and cheerful (suppose it is a day off or you are on vacation together), you find a reason and ask him the following question: “How can I meet you from work when you are tired? How can I help you?».
Please note that this question is simple, clear, not heavy and not long. You don’t talk about your difficult feelings and experiences here, don’t load it with details and problems, you just need instructions: how to do it right. For a military person, this is more than understandable: any business is done according to the instructions. You ask — he will tell you something normal (normal for him). Fine! You listen carefully, clarify if necessary, and write down if possible.
If suddenly later it turns out that his instruction on some evening does not suit him, you do not make claims to him (God forbid!), but ask for the necessary clarifications. Gradually, with his help, you will understand.
Second, no matter what your husband tells you, you need to try out several life-tested options for how a wise and loving wife can meet her general. They are not difficult, check them out, most likely something from this will definitely enter your arsenal.
The first is to meet confidently and calmly, but not implying refusal, in a directive tone to say: “Dinner is ready! Wash your hands, now I will feed you. Military people treat correct orders correctly.
If he doesn’t want to eat, you direct his thoughts and himself in a different direction: “Go have a rest, now I’ll come, I’ll do a massage!”. Look at the situation, there are always options: “Maybe you should lie down now, relax? Lie down for 10-15 minutes, then take a shower. You know it will be easier after that!”
The most cheerful ones can make small flags with such inscriptions: “Dinner!”, “Half an hour of silence!”, “I want you to kiss me!”. The husband comes, and you give him these three flags to choose from … As he says, what he chooses — that’s right!
And the most loving and beloved can, meeting their husband, salute and report: “Comrade General! Beloved wife is ready to meet her husband! What are the orders?»
Military people perfectly understand the language of commands, and the wife here behaves like the mistress of the house: she has the right to give such — correct, caring — commands. Most likely, he will fulfill them with pleasure.
Well, the last remark: your husband should be met by a cheerful wife! No matter how tired you yourself are, your husband has come — you have joy! Right? In any case, you have no options: meet without warmth and joy, get a direct scandal. Therefore, the eyes are cheerful, the intonations are joyful, the face is contented. This is the most important duty of a wife — to meet her husband with joy, and with such a wife a real general will quickly come to his senses!
By following these simple recommendations, you can soon become an indispensable woman for life. Beloved, who knows and knows how to do what her husband needs. And he will be tied to his beloved wife with thick, thick threads, and he will never leave such a woman.
And, of course, such a meeting will make the evening good, and the husband happy!
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