The psychologist spoke about the danger of compassion.
It is not for nothing that since ancient times people were afraid to communicate with patients. It seemed to them intuitively that they could somehow adopt the ailment. In order to be cured, the patients, as it were, shifted the ailment onto an animal or even an object. Surely many remember how grandmothers liked to say: “The cat hurts, the dog hurts, the horse hurts, but Vanyusha does not.” It is also worth remembering about Fedot, to whom they sent hiccups: “Hiccups, hiccups, go to Fedot, from Fedot to Yakov, and from Yakov to everyone.” I must say that the problem somehow magically stopped tormenting …
Many will say that this is all just another intimidation. They say that the disease can only be transmitted by deliberately infecting someone. However, no one is immune from the fact that you can adopt a psychoemotional state.
– People love to complain about ailments in detail and colorfully, reveling in their suffering. It comes to the point that the interlocutor asks you to touch the sore spot. To fully capture your attention, he begins to peer into your eyes.
Thus, he wants you to sympathize with him, the expert continues. – Usually, after such a conversation, you begin to feel empty and even painful. The fact is that you take everything to heart and automatically project it onto yourself. Thus, you unwittingly create a program: “I wish I didn’t get into the same situation.” The brain, as you know, does not hear the preposition “not” and forms the reality that you have formed at your subconscious level. After a few days, you notice that your friend is almost full of health, and you are already taking pills. In such a situation, the most impenetrable skeptics will think about the fact that there is something in this. The question arises: how to protect yourself from such a misfortune? First, if you are complaining about an illness, then try to translate the topic. If it doesn’t work, then say the duty phrase: “Yes, it’s not easy for you now. You still need to see a doctor! ” Secondly, do not take any treats, things or anything as a gift. After all, the patient’s energy trace may remain on them, which will begin to destroy your integral energy shell.