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We are glad to welcome you, dear readers! How many of you have not wondered how to make the impossible possible, if there is no longer any strength to move on? When no one believes in success or the future seems bleak and unpromising?
And if such thoughts visited you, then this article is for you.
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Forget about the word «impossible»
Our future depends on how we perceive the surrounding reality. Or rather, what it will be for us. I mean, a person with a pessimistic outlook on life is unlikely to notice something good around him. Even if it is right under his nose. And if he notices, he will resist, assuring that this is a trap and it just cannot be so good.
So, if you believe that you can cope with something that at first glance seems unrealistic, then consider that half the battle has already been done.
Refuse the words «can’t», «impossible» and so on. Don’t set limits for yourself. If already at the moment great people stopped themselves in their endeavors, then we, for example, would not have mobile phones, the Internet, cars, after all.
Every object that surrounds us is proof that someone once decided to think wider and allowed himself to try to change something.
In general, positive thinking, faith in yourself — success is guaranteed to you. Even if you do not achieve the desired result, you will gain experience that will become a support in further achievements.
Responsibility
It’s so tempting to hope that some miracle will happen and the cherished dream will come true, life will change. True, right?
Do you know the difference between successful people and unsuccessful people? They rely only on themselves and act instead of waiting.
They understand that if they do not start carving their place under the sun, no one will do it instead of them.
Yes, sometimes you have to spend a lot of resources, energy, time, money, in the end, in order to realize your plan. But nothing in life comes easy. You need to understand and be aware of your role in the process, both achieving and not achieving the dream.
Therefore, no excuses for your inaction, take the first step towards change, and then everything will move forward by itself. It’s like jumping into a cold river. It’s scary at first, but it’s worth the risk, as then joy and pleasure appear.
Curiosity
Curiosity drives development. It is thanks to him that children learn the world. When you allow yourself to be led by your own interest, you may be surprised that the impossible is not so impossible after all.
I mean that the energy will come at such moments, not disappear. That’s when a person is engaged in something he does not like, he is exhausted, exhausted. And all because it holds a lot of tension within itself. And this action takes away all the resources of the body. Hard work, force yourself to do what you do not want.
Patience
Sometimes it is not possible to achieve the desired results instantly, the first time. Sometimes a series of failures makes you want to quit, but know that it is not always slow — it’s bad.
Sometimes success overtakes at a moment when a person is not ready to cope with it, from which he soon loses everything that he has earned. Everything has its time.
There are many examples of people who were rejected dozens of times, but they did not give up and were able to receive worldwide recognition. Stephen King’s book «Carrie» was rejected by publishers 30 times, he even managed to throw it out of desperation, but, in the end, it was published and now he is a millionaire, a famous American writer.
How many times has Donald Trump gone bankrupt? Did Elon Musk’s rockets explode on launch? This list goes on and on.
You just have to change your attitude towards failure. They are an experience that, depending on how it is perceived, either helps to move forward, or vice versa, destroys.
Walt Disney once shared his knowledge with the world, which you can really rely on. He said that a collapse, a huge failure, is an extremely necessary experience for every person, because then he simply ceases to be afraid of failure. It also recognizes that anything can happen in life.
Change of activity
Try yourself in different roles. If you understand that some area of activity is not yours, that is, it not only fails, but also does not bring satisfaction — feel free to follow your interest. Even if you have worked for 40 years in one place, take courage and take a risk.
Perseverance does not always give the desired result, among other things, it is not always useful. Because there is a difference between digging a little in the direction of a dream, moving forward a millimeter. And meanwhile, when you have to beat your head against the wall, in the hope of breaking through it someday.
Thanks
Learn to appreciate what you already have. Even if this is not so good. It simply might not exist. If you learn to thank not only fate, other people, but also yourself, then this will provide a powerful resource that will help you endure life’s difficulties and cope with them.
Otherwise, irritation, disappointment, discontent will take over, and you simply will not be able to appreciate what will try to enter your life.
Confidence
Rely on yourself, even if others don’t believe in you. Andy Warhol created very unusual paintings that few people liked. But he insisted that they are great, stubbornly continuing to create. And what do you think? Many years later, the world appreciated him, recognizing that the style is, indeed, unique, brilliant.
Use, if possible, positively colored words, they will help your subconscious tune in to success. For example, such as “joy”, “great”, “I can do it”, “I am happy”, and so on.
Affirmations can also help — these are special phrases that program a person for change. Topics can be completely different, both about recovery and about marriage. If you want to do something impossible and prove to the world, near and far, that you succeeded, the affirmations mentioned in this article will help.
Completion
And that’s all for today, dear readers! Remember that boundaries exist mostly only in our head. Allow yourself to want more without stopping your own impulses with the word «impossible.»
Good luck on your path to excellence!
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The material was prepared by a psychologist, Gestalt therapist, Zhuravina Alina