People are looking for happiness as a memory of childhood, when the sun was shining a lot, there were no worries, the whole world was open and you were loved. Most often they dream of complete and serene happiness — Parasites, Romantics and Processors.
Happiness and ways of human life
Parasites dream of free happiness for themselves, Romantics — for everyone. Consumers and Creators do not dream about happiness and do not expect it — they know that happiness is sometimes not cheap, and it is created when it makes sense and there are enough resources for happiness. The consumer cares about happiness for himself and his loved ones, the Creator is more important not his personal happiness, but the result for life.
Happiness, Processors and Results
It’s true that results, resting on the achievement of their objectives, often deprive themselves of happiness. This is a fact, this is not news. BUT processors, since they are focused on happiness, moments of happiness grab themselves faster. Also true. And what is the conclusion from this?
None. Do not hurry.
Firstly, there is another pattern: the one who is stubbornly aimed at happiness and looking for it all the time is very rarely happy. One of the most reliable ways to kill the joy of life is to ask yourself all the time: “Am I happy now? And now?»
Secondly, happiness experienceis not the purpose of life. More precisely, it may or may not. The process engineer likes such an experience — this is his valuables. The result is more important result, and experiences in the second turn.
Napoleon, looking back at his life, counted only four happy days in it. So what? He needed France, he wanted to give France freedom, reasonable laws, an efficient economy — and this was more important to him than his personal experiences. Big people on their emotions don’t pay too much attention. And the results are worth paying attention to. This is important to them.
Outcomers do not consider happiness the highest value. For them, this is one of the useful resources that they usually use when appropriate. When you need to be washed, they are washed. When it’s better to be happy, they turn on happiness and do business.