You don’t know yet that Nonna had an affair with Karen?
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Gossip is a negative message spread maliciously and behind the back of the gossiper. Washing bones for specific people.
“Oh, you know, someone recently got into such a situation, you won’t believe it … In general, it sucks. Hee hee hee!»
A gossip is one who takes out rubbish from the hut, or carries rubbish made by someone and shows it further.
People gossip more often not at all from evil, rather they have fun with gossip. If they have nothing else to do, if it brings them together and develops at least their communicative qualities — perhaps gossip is justified for people at this level of development.
Girls talk more about the boys they like, and the more popular these boys are, the more often they talk about them. But even the most “popular” boys rarely discuss the girls they like (most likely, this is due to the lesser tendency of men to show their emotions). Interestingly, the stronger the friendship of two or more boys, the less time they spend together gossiping, but the girls — inseparable girlfriends gossip among themselves much more intensively than, for example, just classmates ↑.
Requiring teenage girls not to gossip is difficult, although good families do it. As for adults and educated people, they do not gossip.
Lowering others in gossip, people, as it were, elevate themselves. Are you planning to do so? “He said nasty things — joy in his soul” — is this your way to relieve yourself? Whether you’re telling the truth in gossip or spreading unverified rumours, why?
There is an observation that those who gossip more often than others are those who complain, criticize and express dissatisfaction, for whom it is customary to be in the position of the Victim. If suddenly this is somehow about you, it is worth working with this feature of yours. Here, look at what to do with the position of the Victim, the Purple Bracelet will help someone, very serious people take the Distance and work with themselves in full. The sooner you start working with yourself, the sooner it will start to please you.
Decent and developed people do not gossip themselves and do not listen to gossip. If you don’t like something, go help, participate, try to change the situation. If you do not know how to change the situation there, mind your own business. Make the world a better place where you are, and don’t point your finger at those around you. General rule: “About those who are absent, as if they were dead, it’s either good or nothing” with a possible clarification “You can only mention the negative if there is a constructive one: if you plan to correct or improve something by talking about someone’s mistakes or shortcomings” .
A decent person and gossip are two incompatible things. What more i can say?
Yes, but what if they gossip about you? This is not an easy situation. Responding to gossip directly and telling everyone that everything is not true and not so is rather stupid, funny and ineffective, gossip does not subside from this. And if you make sure that you are a person of status and with strong friends, then everything is simple: already your friends around you sharply tell the gossips “Not interested!”, And the gossips “Stop!”, And the question is closed.