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From the outside, the union of a Gemini man and a Virgo woman seems unstable and contradictory. Painfully they are different and dissimilar. It seems as if they are from different planets that are located at opposite ends of our galaxy. It would seem that their paths, even theoretically, cannot intersect in reality. However, this also happens. The fickle Gemini and the responsible Virgo have different attitudes towards relationships and the organization of family life, but when love touches their hearts, something changes. And this couple, from an astrological point of view, has every chance of creating a strong and happy family. This union, of course, will be very interesting, although the language does not turn out to be simple.
Gemini and Virgo are ruled by Mercury – the planet of creative and emotional people, with a high level of intelligence and well-developed logical thinking. It would seem that everything is working out for the best. But it was not there. Still, they belong to opposite elements: Earth and Air. However, a common patron planet contributes to establishing contacts. Gemini and Virgo should pay attention to this point if they want to have a constructive dialogue.
At first, their relationship develops quite well: the woman is fascinated by the charisma of Gemini and falls in love with him unconsciously, the man is also subdued by the femininity and wisdom of the Virgin, so he fluffs his tail and turns on natural charm. But over time, disagreements and certain problems may arise in the union. The fact is that Gemini is a windy and fickle comrade, he cannot sit in one place, he constantly makes new acquaintances and hobbies, which greatly annoys his chosen one. She has no idea why such bright and strong emotions at the very beginning of the relationship faded away and now Gemini is in no hurry to win the girl’s heart again.
A man born under the constellation Gemini is biased towards long-term relationships. No, he can “date” with the same girl for a long time if she calmly perceives a relationship without obligations. As for the sudden marriage, this is definitely not his story. The Twin Man is a campaign against Peter Pan, an eternally young boy who will show his teeth if someone encroaches on the most sacred thing – the freedom of the Twins. For this reason, it will be extremely difficult for Virgo to come to terms with the windiness and “airiness” of her lover. This woman is characterized by a certain earthliness (not to be confused with limitations!), She enjoys earthly joys, and does not hover in the clouds and does not build Napoleonic plans. This is where the contradiction of the two elements comes in, because of which the problems begin. He wants to live for himself, and she is already ripe for children and trips to the country. However, if the Virgo does not “nag” the Gemini, but dutifully takes on his character and surrounds him with warmth and care, it is quite possible that the eternally young ward of Mercury will give up and make a marriage proposal to his beloved.
Love compatibility
At the very beginning of this difficult relationship, the union rests on the tolerance of the Virgin and her wisdom. A woman born under this sign of the Zodiac categorically cannot stand conflicts and tries to avoid a showdown. It is easier for her to remain silent or calmly say “You are absolutely right” than to prove her point of view to her partner. Virgos have the ability to stop conflicts in the bud, which characterizes them from an extremely positive side. But, as they say, any patience sooner or later comes to an end. And Virgo is no exception in this regard. As soon as the partner crosses conceivable and inconceivable boundaries, she will firmly and confidently express her opinion, recalling that two people are involved in this relationship.
A Gemini man and a Virgo woman have a different attitude towards love. She chooses a man for life and expects that the man will completely belong to her alone, confirming the sincerity of feelings with actions and words. In this regard, Gemini is not the best option. Today he can arrange a romantic dinner, scattering rose petals throughout the house, and tomorrow he will go to work, kissing his chosen one on the cheek. Such a “swing” can sow seeds of doubt in the soul of the feminine Virgo. She will begin to delve into herself, look for the cause of the cold on his part and think about where she made a mistake. And the reason lies on the surface – it’s Gemini and one of the features of the character.
Showdown with Virgos is fraught with protracted quarrels. Both partners will not go into their pocket for a word, and often an ordinary quarrel can turn into a full-fledged scandal and mutual insults. Therefore, a man and a woman should learn to restrain their ardor when the situation heats up to the limit.
The relationship between Gemini and Virgo is interesting in its own way. Two opposite elements – Earth and Air – can constantly fight with each other, or they can coexist peacefully, but on certain conditions. It is not necessary to cancel the law of physics about opposites, which are inexorably drawn to each other. Sometimes Gemini and Virgo are exactly the case. In a pair, each of the partners can find something useful for themselves. So, for example, a woman born under the constellation Virgo would do well to deviate a little from the established canons and leave dirty dishes for the night. Gemini, in turn, should learn responsibility and consistency from their partner.
Friendly relations between a Gemini man and a Virgo woman are quite possible and predictable. It is unlikely, of course, that they will become close friends, but they will spend a lot of time behind spiritual conversations. If Gemini and Virgo have some common project (thesis, study, joint hobby), then the friendship is likely to stay exactly until Gemini finds a new hobby.
Marriage compatibility
The key rule for a strong relationship between a man and a woman born under the auspices of Mercury is the ability to put the partner’s interests at the level of one’s own ambitions. Astrologers are sure that mature Gemini and Virgo can create a strong and happy family if they learn to respect each other and approach the creation of a cell of society with full readiness and awareness. Most likely, they will marry only when everyone has a solid life experience behind them. An early marriage between Gemini and Virgo is also possible, but this union will be held solely on strong feelings.
In family relationships, the Gemini man often uses the Virgo’s care. Directly, he himself is not very inclined to housekeeping, so the solution of domestic issues will fall on the fragile shoulders of the Virgin. But if a man appreciates the efforts of his chosen one and from time to time makes pleasant surprises and compliments, then the woman will certainly reciprocate and close her eyes to some of the shortcomings of her partner. The Virgo woman in family relationships seeks to give birth to a child as soon as possible. She sees in this her main purpose: family and children. In this union, Virgo often becomes a mother of many children and devotes herself entirely to education. The Gemini man also copes well with his fatherly duties, but his upbringing takes place more in a playful way. Children are happy with their fathers, but calm with their mothers.
In order for peace and harmony to reign in the family, Virgo should perceive her chosen one more condescendingly, and Gemini does not interfere with expressing a little more gratitude and showing respect in her spouse. Virgos are true perfectionists, which often annoys Gemini, who do not like to finish what they started.
As for intimate relationships, here the difference in temperaments is especially noticeable. A woman is very sensitive to intimacy, she perceives this as a moment of manifestation of true feelings. But Gemini does not see anything supernatural in this, for him this is a completely ordinary event, for which he does not necessarily prepare. For Virgo, it is not the process itself that is important, but the atmosphere: clean sheets and beautiful linen, a full-fledged prelude and aroma, a general atmosphere and, of course, a special mood. And Gemini is ready for intimacy even in Spartan conditions. Moreover, it is spontaneity that fuels the interest of a man in this tandem. And the regularity and slowness familiar to Virgos may seem boring to Gemini. On this basis, the couple may have disagreements, so the intimate sphere of relations should be given a little more attention in order to avoid quarrels.
Pros and cons of the union Gemini man and Virgo woman
The ideal relationship between the wards of Mercury is like a partnership. This does not mean that there is no passion and romance in the relationship: they are, but this union is based on mutual respect and mutual assistance. Mature Gemini and Virgo will learn to smooth out conflicts and not sort things out every time an opportunity presents itself. They will resolve any issues through constructive dialogue and compromise. Gemini brings a spark to relationships, and Virgo helps him think more judiciously and carefully weigh every step. In addition, the union of Gemini and Virgo has other advantages:
- Support for each other. While a man is busy searching for himself, his chosen one is establishing a life and raising children. Virgos are able to push their interests to a secondary level in order to please their beloved.
- Both are not afraid of experiments. This applies to the place of residence, professional field of activity, hobbies, etc.
- The ability to make concessions. When mature personalities enter into a relationship, ready for marriage and creating a family, there will be very few conflict situations.
A huge plus in a relationship with Virgo will be her ability to manage money and plan time correctly. These qualities are very lacking in the restless Gemini, who strive to be in time everywhere, but in the end they are late everywhere. There are also disadvantages in tandem:
- Forgetfulness of Gemini, which is very annoying to his beloved. It is important for her that the chosen one remembers important dates and some events. The frivolity of the chosen one can cause disagreements in the family.
- Total control by the woman. In this union, the girl will take on the role of a caring mother, controlling everyone and everything in her life. Such behavior is unlikely to please a man who has turned from a loved one into a beloved son.
In order to maintain the union, Virgo must not react so sharply to Gemini’s small shortcomings: excessive interference in his life and total control can scare a man away, which will eventually lead to a break. In turn, the ward of Mercury does not interfere with once again remembering who provides comfort in his house and brings up children. In any relationship, you need to be able to make concessions and seek a compromise: then even the most controversial signs of the Zodiac will be able to create a strong and happy family.