Functions of husband and wife

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«And who is in mind

You have?» — «Yes, in the world,

They say there is a princess

That you can’t take your eyes off.

In the daytime the light of God eclipses,

At night it illuminates the earth —

A month under the scythe glitters,

And in the forehead the star burns.

But she’s great,

Acts like a pava

Sweet speech speaks,

It’s as if the river is gurgling. »

Only, complete, is it true?

If you take care of yourself, you will look for the person who is right for you. (see →) If you care about who you are going to live with, you will think about how much you are like him. And for this — let’s talk about the functions of husband and wife!

Why do men choose some women and pass others by? This question was answered well by one mother, who trained directness of expression and weight of tone in the course of raising three sons alone. When one friend was worried that no one wanted to marry her, her mother said: “Because a wife is a help, not a burden. What kind of help are you? Only one burden. Nobody is taking it. Why does someone need an extra burden in life?

Of course, we are all inimitable and unique, but we are valued mainly for the specific functions that we perform. And if we do not perform or perform poorly, then they do not begin to appreciate us, but you will not be offended.

If the knife cuts, it is good. And if he only takes up space, he will be thrown out. Yes?

Here is a list of the typical strengths and weaknesses of a husband and wife that you can use to great advantage.

This list was made up of young people and girls — members of the Sinton Training Center. They wrote what is right for them, what attracts and repels them in their loved ones and pretenders to love. They discussed this list, argued over what had already been proposed, clarified the wording, checked it according to their soul and life. Naturally, we will not claim that this list is correct for everyone; you can only be sure that it is not taken from the ceiling.

Young people usually want their future wife to be a dear friend for them, with whom it is easy, interesting and sincere for them; A beauty that he can admire himself and be proud of in front of others; Assistant in his affairs; A housewife who feeds deliciously and keeps the House in order; A mistress, so that there is always delicious sex; and a little later, so that his girlfriend turns out to be a Mother, that is, so that she gives birth to healthy children and raises them well.

But they don’t like it and are against it when and if the girl tends to play the Unfortunate Victim, whine or be offended; when she is Parasite and lazy, likes to ride on someone else’s neck; The swearer who is always wrong; Jailer, imprisons, friends and company of other women; they also did not like Prorva, sucking money.

Here. Men are men. Of course, other circumstances are also important, such as the poor health of the wife, the presence of bad relatives, a tendency to walk away from the family, etc., but this is less often mentioned.

​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​When women make up their list of expectations for men, their list is no less logical, but, of course, a little different. They need a husband as a Dear friend, with whom the wife is easy, interesting and sincere, as a Lover — Strong and Gentle, Protection and Support — in all difficult situations, Sponsor, so that his wife does not have a headache about money, Father, who will be respected and love children, Home Improver, so that the taps do not leak and the refrigerator works, and plus, let it also be Prestigious — it looks good and at a good job.

And the more of all this a young man has, the more attractive he is in the eyes of a girl — at least for the family.

What qualities in a man make him essentially unattractive? The girls gave the following formulations: he is some kind of Separate, creates loneliness in the family, he is an Exploiter, he puts everything on his wife, a Scolder, to whom everything is always wrong, a Jailer, deprives his wife of freedom, friends and other men and an Wasteer — spends money who knows where. More random and less relevant (for the circle of our girls) fit into the category Other (the man has no money, poor health, he is impotent, a drunkard or a walker).

An important note: you will not live with a person in general, but with a very specific person, and his expectations may differ slightly from this list. At least: suppose you are a nice warm person, everything is sincere and warm with you, you are an amazing Mistress and cook well. Congratulations! It’s great, but if your chosen one is more important than his wife Beauty, passionate Mistress and generally Bitch, then with such preferences, your real merits will not be fully appreciated by him. Therefore, it is very useful, for example, in a playful way, as a fun test, to invite your chosen one or chosen one to make a ranking: what is the most important for him (her) from this list, and what is less important. Perhaps you will hear very important things for yourself.

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