Nonsense and myths associated with the concept of «friendship»:
- “Real, faithful, male friendship” (this concept formed the basis of many literary works), which is based on trust and fidelity to obligations to self-sacrifice. Friendship between men is contrasted with relationships between women, where it is believed that true friendship is impossible.
- Contrasting «friendship» and «love». It is believed that love excludes friendship, and friendship excludes love.
- In Soviet pedagogy, it was believed that only friendship was allowed between boys and girls at school, and love was unacceptable. THERE IS NO FRIENDSHIP IN THE MODERN WORLD AND THERE IS NO LOVE ALSO, IS IT SO?
If they don’t want to be friends with us, if they stop loving us, then our usefulness in someone’s life has ended. No one will ever let the right person out of his life. Devotion to the right just rolls over. Relying on the magic of friendship and love is stupid: no matter how harsh it sounds, but as we become ballast in someone’s life, sooner or later we are thrown off the “board of the plane”. We ourselves create the magic of friendship and love, daily and hourly — if we create it.
But to be needed is a lot of work!
But it’s much more pleasant to think that love and friendship exist on their own …
And by themselves, these “love” and “friendship”, arising from the air, and not from some rational utility, bind people forever …
And that’s what we think and think…
Don’t kid yourself.
But I confidently declare — there is love and friendship! It is only necessary to know well the nature of these phenomena in human relations. There is a rational backbone in long-term love and friendship. Look around — look at the relationships of other people! Strongly people are connected by mutual strengthening of each other.
With enlightenment, friends! And no offense! We are who we are! And it’s better for us not to think about ourselves.
But we can happily exist in a mutually beneficial exchange forever. Track your contributions to other people. And know: you exaggerate them))) Therefore, roll up your sleeves, work and work, and you will never have to find out that love and friendship do not exist.
She is! And there is even an eternal one!