For the first time from a man’s perspective. How to prepare for the first intercourse?

I’m gonna start having sex with my girlfriend. We both concluded that this is our time, we are both 20 years old.

We are going to go together, the closer to the trip I get more and more afraid. Will it hurt me? How do I do that? What position to choose so as not to hurt my girlfriend. How should we protect ourselves. ~ thymon

If a man does not have any anatomical defects, for example phimosis, he does not experience pain during sexual intercourse, but rather excitement and pleasure. If this is the first time for a woman, it may be associated with pain and even slight bleeding that comes from a ruptured hymen. However, this is not a mandatory symptom, as some women have such a structure of the hymen that allows the penis to freely penetrate the vagina without the above-mentioned symptoms and ailments. Of course, remember that your partner should be properly aroused, as this ensures proper vaginal lubrication and reduces the feeling of discomfort. The position is an absolutely individual matter, it is difficult for anyone to advise anything in this regard. On the other hand, one should definitely remember about the appropriate security, which will give both of them a sense of security. You can consider using hormonal contraception, as it is the most reliable, but only after a week of using it, you can start intercourse without additional protection.

Also read: Contraception for the first time

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