In one of the marathons, I read a review of a girl who complained about the lack of femininity. It must be admitted that she is not the only one. Quite a lot of women would like to acquire this quality. I want to please you — it is quite real. A person can make himself the way he wants, you just need to work a little on yourself. But how?
To answer this question, let’s go back to childhood. Remember how we played mother-daughter, copying our mothers, copying the behavior of neighbors who come to ask for salt or matches? How did we copy kind and strict educators in the game, then teachers?
Have you already guessed where I’m going? Yes, yes, you need to immerse yourself in the game again, but this time, you have to play a feminine woman.
«What’s it like to play?» — you ask. For the answer, we will go to the children. See how they play teacher: they copy gestures, intonations, words. But during the game, one of the students indulges, how will the child-teacher behave? He will make a remark, although in ordinary life, being a student, he will laugh at the antics of a classmate. Or another example: one of the students wrote inaccurately, and the child-teacher scolded and forced to rewrite. Childish act, agree? The child in the game is completely immersed in the image of another person. You should do the same.
You are already an adult, and the game should be approached in an adult way. To get the result faster and to please you, make a list of behavioral characteristics that distinguish a feminine woman. For example:
– what words does she use and which ones are not in her vocabulary?
— how loudly does she speak, intonation, timbre of her voice?
How does she laugh, how does she smile?
– how often does a smile or a half smile play on her face?
— what kind of gait does she have, how does she turn around, how does she hold her hands, does she stoop?
How does she get up and sit down?
— what kind of mistress, wife, mother, daughter, colleague is she?
— does she pull everything herself or asks men for help, making them feel like men?
What clothes does she choose?
What else would you add to this list?
Now that you have sorted the desired image on the shelves, it’s time to start playing. Try to keep this image day by day. First work out a smile, voice, laughter, then gait and gestures. Do not try to immediately become a perfect copy of the chosen image. Some qualities will be fixed very quickly, others will require a little more time.
Be sure to praise yourself every day for being a little more feminine today. In no case do not scold yourself if something did not work out or you forgot about maintaining the image. Remember that this is just a game. Move towards the goal at a comfortable pace, easily, effortlessly, with joy. Human psychology is arranged in such a way that the more joy and positive there is in the game, the sooner the necessary skills will be fixed.
I think that you have already guessed that in this way you can create any image that you aspire to. This method is suitable for both women and men.
Play, change, become better!
Good luck on your transformation journey!