Find distance with screen

The Internet, video games… In the age of advanced technology, children are generously flooded with streams of visual images. It is worth helping them get comfortable with this – by setting boundaries and helping to critically evaluate what they see.

Basic Ideas

  • Contagiousness of emotions. Visual images infect with emotions, making the viewer susceptible to any suggestion.
  • Away from the body. In front of the screen, vision and hearing are “disconnected” from bodily sensations, while the body accumulates nervous tension.
  • Being bored is (sometimes) good. The Internet and video games do not let you get bored, although the child needs this for the development of an independent “I”.

Our contemporaries are able to sit for hours at screens and monitors, with pleasure surrendering to the power of virtual reality. The cult film The Matrix is ​​an impressive metaphor for the power that streams of video images can acquire over us. And yet, as adults, we regularly get hung up on screens and then get frightened by how addicted we are to them.

How do television and the computer affect our children? Do all sorts of spidermen and cyborgs turn them into aggressive puppets?

“Here it is useful to recall the medieval physician Paracelsus, who claimed that everything is poison and everything is medicine, and only measure determines the difference,” says educational psychologist Galina Kucherova. “If the computer or TV is an integral part of our daily lives, we should establish the right distance between them and ourselves in order to maintain the ability to control emotions, the ability to think critically and the freedom to choose whether or not to watch, for how long and what exactly.”

Enchanting visions

Visual images are a powerful means of influencing consciousness, including through emotions, which are easily infected by viewers. Perceiving information actively, for example, when reading, the brain generates electrical potentials with a frequency of 14-40 oscillations per second (the so-called beta rhythm), and when watching TV, it goes into a slow mode of operation (alpha rhythm, 8-13 oscillations per second). ). This is a sign that we are relaxed, our attention is not focused.

“This effect occurs due to a sharp decrease in the activity of the left hemisphere, which is responsible for the analytical processing of information and logical thinking,” explains child neuropsychologist Nikolai Voronin. “Just like during a hypnotic trance, a person uncritically perceives information, absorbs it without thinking.”

The brain of a child is much more susceptible to direct screen impact, since the mechanisms and skills that “filter” information in children have not had time to form: the child absorbs everything from the screen like a sponge.

What should parents do

Diversify your activities. It is in our power to limit the child’s stay at the monitor or TV so that he can find time for other activities, alternate reading and games, activities and sports, walking and socializing.

Reflect on the concepts of “image” and “reality.” It is necessary to reconsider two common beliefs that we transmit to children: that a visual image is identical to a real object, and that this image is perceived by everyone in the same way – while each perception is individual. To do this, adults together with children should:

  • analyze the “technical component” of what you see on the screen. Pause to view the image, explore the storyboard, discuss the plots dedicated to creating video effects in this or that blockbuster;
  • try to create similar images with the help of a photo, video camera, multimedia programs together with the children;
  • more often wonder if what you see on the monitor is possible in reality. For example, drive a car at a speed of 200 km per hour along a narrow mountain road and not crash into anything;
  • discuss and compare what each of you saw after watching the same film or report.

Talk about the emotions you are experiencing. Visual images are good for our psyche if we can put into words what they make us feel. Be interested in what children see without criticizing, ask them to generalize and express (through words, drawings, games) what they saw. Be prepared to explain how you feel and think about what you see. This “work” is necessary if visual images have a great influence on us and make a strong impression on children.

Turned to sight and hearing

When we watch TV, play games on a computer or tablet, sight and hearing seem to be separated from other physical sensations. In this case, body movements are actually reduced to nothing, and bodily tension imperceptibly accumulates.

The child at the computer plays with his hands, mentally projecting himself onto his double moving on the screen. But at the same time, it is worth remembering that children learn something only during real physical actions and manipulations. In addition, fascinated by the possibilities of his “hero”, the playing child runs the risk of not being ready to accept the features of the real physical world and overcome its limitations.

If the child is often left alone with the screen, his independence and activity may be suppressed.

“An XNUMX-year-old boy told me that he doesn’t like walking because it hurts him,” says Claude Allard, a child psychiatrist and psychoanalyst. “After the examination, it turned out that walking seemed difficult to him and caused frustration compared to how he could move around on the screen.”

“In virtual reality, the child is used to being able to run upside down, crash into a cake, and then get up and run further – for him, the impossibility of such movements is not obvious,” confirms Nikolai Voronin. – In children who spend too much time in front of the monitor, hand-eye coordination may not be formed: they move around corners. There are also problems with audio-motor coordination – in order to localize the sound in space, to understand where it comes from.

Being carried away by the game, the child cannot control the time spent in front of the monitor. “In 73% of children, even a short work at the computer causes fatigue,” says Galina Kucherova. “Anxiety, absent-mindedness and fatigue begin to appear as early as the 14th minute.”

Sitting still can lead to myopia or weight gain. “In addition, with prolonged exposure to radiation, changes can occur in the body associated with the release of the hormone melatonin, which is responsible for regulating sleep,” adds Nikolai Voronin. “The child may not sleep well, and walk around sluggish and sleepy during the day.”

Discoveries and limitations

On the other hand, modern gadgets provide ample opportunities for intellectual development.

“There are many games that develop children’s speed of reaction, visual memory, attention, logical thinking – some of them are already used in kindergartens,” says Galina Kucherova. “For older students, a computer, the Internet is a great help in quickly obtaining the necessary information.”

Screens and monitors can become helpers for children, provided that we remember both the limits of their capabilities and their negative properties.

“If a child is often left alone with the screen, his independence and activity can be suppressed,” warns psychologist Elena Smirnova. – The monitor magnetizes his gaze, he looks without thinking, his imagination is turned off. And for the development of figurative thinking, it is useful for a child to learn to imagine something that he cannot see: the same aliens, a character in a book, a toy that is described to him.

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In addition, the constant alternation of pictures makes it difficult to develop critical thinking and assess the nuances of what is happening. “The stream of video images leaves no pauses for thinking, working with information,” says Nikolai Voronin. “Through the visual analyzer, a direct non-stop flow of information goes to the child’s brain, an overload occurs.”

Conclusion: communication with a tablet, computer and other devices should be dosed. “It is better for children under five years old not to be at the computer at all, six-year-olds – to spend no more than 20 minutes a day, school-age children – no more than two to three hours with breaks,” sums up Galina Kucherova.

An obstacle to independence

A small child will hardly gain independence if he is chained to the screen. In the absence of a mother, a “television nanny” can compensate for his anxiety. But it also prevents him from learning to endure separation at the expense of his own strength, developing the presence of an “inner parent” in himself with the help of encouraging images and words that need to be invented in order to feel safe and comfortable.

In addition, television and game consoles are so addictive that children find it hard to put them down. At the same time, the child never experiences boredom … But it is precisely boredom that is a feeling necessary in order to make a decision to act actively. “The child dives into a computer or television reality and cannot switch to anything else,” says Elena Smirnova.

Artificial socialization

The monitor takes up time that can be devoted to real communication. Sitting in front of the screen, the child communicates with video characters, but such interaction is just a surrogate for the real. Video and TV heroes don’t need us, we need them.

“Children who are overly fond of computer games do not know how to communicate and play with their peers, except by discussing these very games,” says Elena Smirnova.

“In the virtual world, a child can feel like a ruler, controlling people and the elements,” says Galina Kucherova. “There he is not responsible for his actions and deeds, while in the real world he may be waiting for negative assessments and the need to change something in himself.”

In addition, virtual images and characters are often conceived and drawn so bright and attractive that, in comparison with them, the real environment may seem rather dull and uninteresting to children.

How to deal with scenes of violence

In modern films and even cartoons, they are not uncommon. How does this affect the behavior of children? The American psychoanalyst Bruno Bettelheim emphasized that children need some degree of violence in the plots, as this helps them learn how to behave in relation to such feelings, since they arise in life.

“Opposite principles and feelings — good and evil, love and hate — are part of our inner world,” explains children’s analyst Tatyana Shatunova. “High-quality films are able to show children how these feelings can be “managed.” But in any case, you need to carefully select the TV repertoire.

“An excess of violent videos and games is fraught with the threat of “infecting” a child with aggression,” Galina Kucherova is sure. “He may have a mechanism to identify with the main aggressive character, whose actions are justified in the course of the script.”

According to a number of studies, most children showed aggression after watching scenes of violence, especially when it seemed to them “with impunity” or when the aggressor achieved his goal and got what he wanted. The American Academy of Pediatrics warns that exposure to such scenes often instills in children the habit of resolving conflicts by force, can make them insensitive to others, and at the same time form a frightening picture of the world around them.

Finally, such scenes can cause an overabundance of emotions or confusion of feelings: the smaller the child, the more he is inclined to remember a single act of aggression without its connection with the context, without comprehending it.

In any case, let’s remember that the power of suggestion of any video sequence is enormous, and our task is not to isolate children from screens and monitors, but to teach them how to use them wisely in everyday life.

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