Hello dear blog readers! Feng Shui is not just furniture arranged correctly in the apartment, it is the organization of your space in such a way as to attract success, happiness and harmony.
In principle, everyone chooses for himself what exactly he lacks to feel the fullness of life, money for someone, fame or health for someone.
Here we are, for example, today we will learn how to use feng shui for love and marriage. So that single people can meet their chosen ones, and those who are already in a relationship move to a new level, legitimizing them or deciding to live together.
Where to start?
The practice of Feng Shui involves the zoning of space, each of its sectors is responsible for a certain area of human life. Love is in the southwest of any dwelling. Therefore, the first step is to determine where it is located in order to further equip it to attract happiness.
You can do this with a compass. But, firstly, not everyone knows how to use it, and few people have it. And secondly, in the conditions of the city there are a lot of reinforced concrete structures that can affect the result, distorting it.
I offer the simplest and most modern way. Launch Yandex.Maps, Google Maps or any other mapping program and find your home. Almost all gadgets have a navigator that will automatically determine your location.
In general, as soon as you find your home, look carefully at the map. What is above your house is north, below is south, respectively, on the left is west, and on the right is east. Now try to determine where the southwestern part of the apartment is.
Prepare
No matter how clean your home is, a deep cleaning is essential. To not a single speck of dust and speck. Pay special attention to windows and mirrors.
Energy must circulate throughout the premises, so get rid of things that have not been used for a long time. Especially if among them there are already unnecessary gifts from former partners, or those that evoke unpleasant memories and associations.
No wonder there is a tradition in Italy to throw away old things. They believe that in this way they attract something new.
So do charity work and give away what you don’t need to those who need it. At a minimum, you will be provided with a plus in karma.
Activators
The zone of love and marriage belongs to the fire element, therefore, according to Feng Shui, metal or wooden elements should be avoided when decorating it.
If you want passion, intensity of emotions — place red objects in it, if romance and tenderness — pink. For the stability of relationships and fidelity — brown or yellow.
Also, any pairs are effective zone activators. In no case should you put something in a single copy there, otherwise you will have to learn to enjoy constant loneliness. For example, it can be pillows, lamps, caskets, figurines.
If it so happened that the bedroom was in the southwest, you can store toys for love games, books about sex or love in bedside cabinets. Necessarily in the bedside table — none of the strangers should not only touch these objects, but also see them.
Talismans
The figurines of birds are most often used for decoration. They are considered the most faithful in a relationship, as they form a couple once and for all. Many, even after the death of a partner, remain completely alone for the rest of their lives. So you can buy figurines of pigeons, mandarin ducks or cranes, swans.
You can hang pictures, photos. And both flowers, and just men, women. What is pleasing to your eye and what is associated with love, marriage. But, you understand, always paired and with paired images.
Also popular are Buddha figurines, butterflies, cats, hearts. Hotteya can also be stroked periodically on the stomach. If you spend exactly 300 times on it, your cherished desire will come true.
Interior
Books give a lot of positive energy, fill the shelves with them. They are a symbol of stability. Just what you need for marriage.
Add more red, brown elements to the interior. In the kitchen, be sure to have various boxes with aphrodisiacs and spices, such as coriander, nutmeg, cinnamon.
Recommendations
- Light a red and a white candle more often, always together. They symbolize the masculine and feminine.
- Turn on your favorite music in this zone, you should feel comfortable every time you get into it. The feeling of inner harmony will inevitably lead to external changes.
- If a conflict arises, be sure to try to resolve it in any other room, but in no case allow negative energy to destroy what you have been “building” so hard.
- In talismans, choose only those items that evoke pleasant emotions and associations in you. No matter how effective the figurine with swans is, if you are absolutely indifferent to them — at least arrange them throughout the apartment, you will not get any benefit or harm.
- Maintain harmony, I mean, do not «litter» the space with symbolic objects. Everything should be in moderation.
- This part of your home, responsible for your privacy, should be well lit. Therefore, it will not be superfluous to hang a couple of lamps in it.
- If you decide to decorate your home with framed photographs, be sure to avoid those that are defective. Even the slightest scratches or cracks can be harmful. And also, in no case do not use fakes, in the sense, under some kind of precious stone. For example, there are stickers in the form of marble or metal, so they should be discarded.
- In no case do not hang mirrors near the bed. Contrary to the belief that they increase sexual energy, in fact, your romantic luck disappears in the reflection. Yes, and forces, internal resources become less if you sleep opposite him.
Completion
And that’s all for today, dear readers! Finally, I want to recommend that you read the article in which you will learn what Taoism is and get acquainted with its basic ideas and principles.
Love to you and many happy years of marriage!
The material was prepared by a psychologist, Gestalt therapist, Zhuravina Alina