Dear ladies, an exercise is offered:
1. Take a piece of paper and cut it in half. Our task is to make two lists.
2. In the first column we will write a list of our achievements in life. Here we write everything that we have received, making certain efforts. Studied hard at the Institute and received a red diploma. After five years of hard work, they saved up for an apartment and bought it. We wanted to get a position, and many years of work led us to this result.
3. In the second column we will write a list of our gifts. Here we write everything that came into our lives in the form of gifts: from parents, acquaintances, men, friends, unexpectedly fell. This also includes beautiful eyes and long legs. Perhaps you just got offered a new position. Or inherited an apartment.
4. We try to write lists as complete as possible, without forgetting anything. And then we summarize. We consider how many positions we have in the first list, and how many in the second. This test shows which energies predominate in us today: feminine or masculine. If our list of achievements is longer, it means that we have a male type of achievement. If there are more positions in the list of gifts, then we live according to the female type of getting what we want.
5. Now look at these two lists carefully and remember how you felt when you achieved something or just got it?
When I began to remember my feelings, I was extremely surprised. After almost every achievement, I needed time to rehabilitate. I had a fever, my stomach ached, and it took me at least a week to restore my strength. Although, looking at my husband and other men, I see how their achievements simply inspire, they give them strength, instill confidence, and they are immediately ready to conquer new heights.
I felt completely different feelings looking at my list of gifts. Each time it was jubilation and joy, it gave strength, desire to act and conquer the whole world! Although the men in my environment are more humiliated by gifts and instill a sense of insecurity in themselves and their abilities.
Maybe we really wanted to prove for too long that we are the same as men, that we are no worse? So long that they forgot that we really are not worse and not better, we are just different. And what inspires some, takes strength from others. So can return to his nature? I agree, their method is more understandable, everything is obvious in it: you set a goal, made a plan and act. Our method is not so obvious, we need to learn how to desire correctly. And gifts from life will not keep you waiting.
And now, girls, let’s sum up this suggestion exercise: if you, my dears, dare to experience the joy of your achievements, then “HORROR-HORROR!” you are imbued with male energies, you urgently need to be treated and returned to the female sources of gaining resources!
Resources should be given to you! Remember! No other way! Otherwise, you will lose all your femininity — just in the bud, and your whole life will go down the drain.
Therefore, they quickly quit their unloved job and ran to the training, to learn to truly desire (work, of course, we all have, a priori, unloved).
But no one will articulately tell us how to “really desire” this. We will be told the effect: if you really wanted it, you got it; if not really — did not receive. “You see for yourself! Completely squandered feminine energy! We need to heal you faster, faster!” And we went to treat tuberculosis with plantain.
Girls, is there still among the female tribe, someone who gullibly believes that in this life you can get something for free, for free? What is really possible? What is it and there are some incredibly wise laws of the Universe — women are all for nothing? And that you just need to stand on your ears and become incredibly feminine?
But what about the law of conservation of energy in the universe? Or do you think that some evil misogynists slipped him?
You don’t think so, do you? Although I would like for us, women, to have personal exceptions))) But, alas! In psychology, this law also works!
Yes, you can do nothing, being a sexually fit female, except for one thing; cultivating one’s sexuality and ability to effectively operate inexpensive entertainment in someone else’s life. And, even if, at some stage, millions are thrown at you, then your life and your ability to dispose of it are still more expensive! This is the first.
Secondly, if you want guardianship, solid gifts as in childhood, then along with guardianship you will also receive complete total control: the right of another person to decide everything for you in your life.
It can be said, thank God, that I was born a woman and in our civilization naive women are allowed to do this — to be an infantile creature who does not know how to decide anything and who does not know how to provide for himself with his own hands. In the wild, an animal that can live only at the expense of others, having left the period of childhood, will not live a day.
In a civilized society, this is possible… only the wild nature is more humane, so in a civilized society with such a way of life, you will have to stop being a person, but simply become a thing.
No male energies, of course, will be terrible for such a woman, she will live as an infantile doll all her life. Will there be any energies in this doll at all? Don’t know. But I refuse to call these energies feminine.
I refuse to call female energies, the energies of parasitism and total psychological immaturity.
Moreover, I responsibly affirm that there are no male and female energies. There is a marketing ploy with which they want to impose on women a stale strategy that they seek to supply naive ladies without warning them of the consequences. What for? People asks. People pay. We’ll feed People.
Children always want candy instead of healthy food. Parents love children and give them sweets not as food, but as entertainment. When we become adults, we ourselves must learn to understand where food is and where surrogate entertainment is.
Dear girls, this moth-eaten strategy has a time frame — three to five years of reckless sitting on the neck of men for young girls. A woman after thirty-five years of age who meditates on this wondrous strategy will be looked upon as lacking intelligence and powers of observation.
Of course, now the choir of defenders of this strategy of femininity can join in and tell me that the main idea is for us, women, to receive everything without tension, but it is not easy to receive something from men. The main idea is without tension. Here it is the key to femininity!
But I don’t like a play on words and I’ll ask right away — what is without tension?
For example, I didn’t stress, but just methodically worked ten thousand hours for my profession day after day. Yes, there was overcoming, there were difficulties, but there was no tension! He strained his body and his restless mind. And it can be controlled — learn to keep the body and mind relaxed. And at the same time, “bale-bale, bale-bale” to work out your hours and go to even greater relaxation, when for one blow of the hammer to the exact place and in just a few minutes, the “Universe” already pays off ten thousand dollars to the lucky one who does not strain .
Decent gifts, or rather good dividends from yesterday’s investments, begin after ten thousand hours of investing our efforts in some of our skills, for which society will pay us with joy, and even with profit.
That is, our hour, our minutes will cost an order of magnitude more expensive in comparison with the payment of those who are engaged in the same activity, but they still have a flight time of one hundred hours.
And, oh yes, after ten thousand hours of flight, any activity is a joy, not strained, like a gift from life! And this applies to both women and men!
Men love receiving gifts too! Trust me girls! And also with great pleasure they approach the period of receiving gifts from the «Universe»)))
And, thank God, very many of the men — step by step — are approaching this «easy» period of their high professionalism, because, unlike us women, they are not yet zombied into idiocy, and they know that and how it works in life, without illusions! Now you girls know too! Will you look for parasitic methods? And this will depend on what circle you are spinning in, what intricate patterns your neurons in the brain add up to, what dominants will control your life. Therefore, actively observe the hygiene of the environment, strive to join the society of smart and kind people! And you will be rewarded with an awakened wise subconscious as a gift from the «Universe» — your wise habits-automatisms, developed in a society of decent people, helping you out in difficult life periods! Easily helping out, without tension!
Video from Yana Shchastya: interview with professor of psychology N.I. Kozlov
Topics of conversation: What kind of woman do you need to be in order to successfully marry? How many times do men get married? Why are there so few normal men? Childfree. Parenting. What is love? A story that couldn’t be better. Paying for the opportunity to be close to a beautiful woman.