Speaking logically, expressing yourself thesis is an important and necessary skill that will come in handy for anyone who wants to be successful. However, most people do not communicate perfectly logically. In particular, women have mastered a special logic in the process of evolution and continue to improve this type of thinking, and there is something useful in this.
The “Psychologos” defines: “Female logic is a way of thinking and talking, where logic gives way to impulsiveness and feelings.” Indeed, women tend to speak more emotionally, recalling a large number of details, sometimes overdoing it with digressions. Women sin by jumping ideas. But is speech with elements of female logic always less effective than male?
What is the male logic based on? A man sees the goal and goes to it in the shortest possible way. He thinks structurally. Women are different. If a woman obviously knows her destination and is sure that she will definitely get there, then the trajectory is of secondary importance (see picture). It is not so important for a woman how many extra words she uses, she does not consider them superfluous. Expressing her thoughts, a woman enjoys the process itself, especially when the interlocutor looks at her tenderly and listens with a smile.
In fact, any woman, when she includes the female type of communication (as opposed to the male “thesis-justification-conclusion”), acts as a real expert in speech influence, inducing a speech trance on the interlocutor. Women’s tricks lull the vigilance of men, men in a state of trance do what a woman wants from them faster.
But I’ll make a reservation right away — in my opinion, it is necessary to separate women’s speech without purpose and women’s speech with a conscious purpose. Sometimes a lady broadcasts just to broadcast (the goal is to get a portion of attention, to give free rein to demonstrativeness, and for this the text of the speech is not important at all). But when a woman keeps in mind the purpose of the conversation, she can twist and persevere as much as she likes until the interlocutor does what she needs.
It is thanks to female logic that we sometimes talk for a very long time, not being afraid that the thought will end. It cannot end if it did not exist in the beginning. That is, there was no clearly formulated thesis and structure, but there was an idea. I think this skill can be useful not only in everyday life, but also in professional communication, including consultants and trainers.
Do not underestimate the importance of female logic and fight with it. To become a good practical psychologist, you just need to master new ways of communication, expand the range of techniques that you own, learn in different ways. To speak thesis, having in stock including female logic. Then success will inevitably come!